We tried the yoga pillow again. Well, Lion tried it. I spanked him while he was trying it. His cheeks were still not spread open enough to spank into the crack. I’m not sure what we’ll need for that. I was concentrating on hitting near the crack and spreading his cheeks to hit inside. Lion tells me I hit to the side if I swat where I think I should. It’s not that he doesn’t feel it when he sits. He just feels it more if I get the majority of the swats in the middle.
Between switching from the wood paddle for his cheeks to the smaller paddle for inside his cheeks and concentrating on the placement of those swats, I wasn’t really able to figure out if he’d had enough. When I asked him if he thought that was enough of a warmup, he asked why I was hitting him. I told him it was “just because.” And if it was just because, it didn’t really matter how long I hit him, so I stopped a few minutes later.
I know the just because swats are supposed to be the same as a punishment, but I really wanted his cheeks open so that I could swat inside the crack. If that wasn’t happening, there didn’t seem to be much point. If I owed him swats, I certainly would have continued. He would have needed to learn a lesson, or at least be reminded that he’d broken a rule.
spanking inside his crack is still a challenge
My issue remains, how do I get his cheeks spread open? Lion suggested trying over the knee again. I don’t think either of us is acrobatic enough to do that. Maybe there’s a way, but I don’t want to take a chance on him falling. I can’t remember if our spanking bench opened him up or not. We dismantled it a long time ago anyway. Oh well. The search continues.
[Lion — I could spread them for you.]
I didn’t do anything anal with him. Maybe we’ll do it tonight. I figured spanking was enough for one night. I still have to give him a haircut, but I may be able to put it off one more day. I’m finding that taking a shower earlier adds to the chaos of coming home and doing whatever needs to be done before dinner is started. I like having some time to decompress from the day. Lion says he thinks a shower is calming and de-stresses him. I’m sure I’ve found showers comforting at some point, but taking one before dinner makes me feel rushed. I suppose I’ll get used to it, though.
The lion may be ready for some weenie attention, especially if we do anal play. It’s been a few days. Even if he doesn’t have an erection, he’ll still like being played with. Think of it as snuggling for his private area.