Aside from the Costco run and dinner, I didn’t accomplish anything last night. It was 8:30 when we got home and we just sat down to watch TV. We did snuggle.
For whatever reason, after I got Lion hard, I decided to give him a blow job. Well, there are two good reasons: he likes it and I like doing it for him. So I did. Lion said he was surprised. I’m not sure if he was surprised by the blow job or the orgasm. He was due for the orgasm as part of Unlocktober. I assume it was the blow job that surprised him. [Lion — it was!]
Why would he be surprised by a blow job? I know I don’t do them often. Maybe I need to up my game. In the beginning of the year I set a goal to do at least half hand jobs and half blow jobs. At this point, I don’t know how many blow jobs I need to catch up. There may not be enough days left in the year. There may not be enough oomph left in Lion. I’d say he would die trying, but orgasms cease to be fun at a certain point. Too much of a good thing. [Lion — I’ll do my best! I just need 21 more blow jobs to catch up.]
Another reason he might have been surprised by the blow job is that the rules he set for Unlocktober said hand jobs only. Except for his birthday, I followed that rule. Lion did say I didn’t have to follow those rules. Even if he didn’t say it I wouldn’t have to follow the rules. I’m in charge. I can do what I want.
Along those lines, I was thinking of shaving Lion’s pubic hair. Yesterday I told him maybe I could get enough room carved out to put up the waxing table. If my goal is to get the house in full working order, should I “waste” my time trying to get the waxing table ready? It will happen in due time but there are other, more important, battles to fight. His being furry doesn’t bother me (and I was up to my nose in it last night) but if it bothers him then a quick run with the Lion hedge clippers can push off the need for waxing for a little while. Just a thought.
I would certainly see a blow job with orgasm to be a pleasant surprise. My wife does occasionally enjoy giving me a blow job, but very rarely to completion. If she does, I would expect to be eating cum.
I love hearing you acknowledge that you are in charge and don’t have to follow the “rules”! I keep encouraging my wife to be in charge and remind her that it was my idea and I am still happy to continue that way.
On the pubic hair topic, she has been having me grow mine out for the past 6 months. For the last couple of years she lets me shave it all off for a few months in the winter. She was commenting the other day on how thickly it has grown in now and that she likes it. I groused that I did not and really enjoy being clean shaven. I want her to be in charge, so looks like I will being staying furry.
I’m putting in my two cents. Mrs. Lion seems to be pretty oblivious to the state of my body hair. As I’ve written before, I think it’s much nicer with no hair. I’m happy with Mrs. Lion’s resolution to give me more blow jobs. I’ve suggested that maybe we try different positions to do this. Currently, she lies on her stomach on the bed between my legs. Frequently, her shins are in painful contact with the footboard. I’m sure we can do better.