We’ve tried a lot of things over the years. Some have worked and some haven’t. Why? I’m not exactly sure but I have a theory. Well, first, it has to be a good idea. Having Lion stand on his head in the corner as punishment is just not doable. Making him get the mail naked is similarly not doable. But even if I think it’s a good idea, I think I sabotage things. Not necessarily on purpose. But if it isn’t an easy thing to do, I’ll stop doing it.
I have several examples. Taking Lion downstairs to play in the swing may not seem difficult, but it’s definitely not as easy as playing on the bed. Restraining him to the bed is definitely not as easy as not restraining him to the bed. Pegging Lion so I’ll be able to fist him is not as easy as not pegging him. This is not to say I won’t do these things. I just won’t do them often. And pegging requires a lot of time and consistency, and I don’t think it will ever happen.
Why did the chastity device work? It was easy. I don’t have to do anything. Every other day I have to unlock him and play with him. Simple! I even upped it to most days. It’s really not that difficult. You know what’s easier? Having him wild. I don’t have to do a thing when I want to play with him. It’s a couch potato’s dream! (No, Lion, I’m not saying I don’t want you caged.)
I think I have to be very careful about what I’m willing to commit to. No, I didn’t think the cage would last. I figured I’d just wait Lion out and it would be done in a matter of weeks. But then something weird happened. It became part of a routine. It really wasn’t hard for me to unlock him and lock him back up. I mean, sometimes the cage can be a little difficult to work with, but it’s really not that hard.
We do have our cycles of not playing as much as Lion would like. I tend to go right for the edging and ignore the fact that he likes to be restrained or have clothespins on his balls. When I realize what’s happening I try to throw in more BDSM. I don’t usually remember diapers or panties unless Lion mentions them. We’ve got hundreds and hundreds of diapers and we don’t use them much. And it’s pretty much my fault.
I don’t want to do diapers just because Lion mentions diapers. That makes it seem like he’s running the show. But now that I’ve thought of it on my own…I see a wet butt in Lion’s immediate future.