Last night is a prime example of why I stopped making promises about playing with Lion. Something is bound to come up and if it happens often enough, it’s like the boy who cried wolf. We ate a late lunch and by the time we decided to have dinner, it pushed everything back at least an hour. I didn’t get out of the shower until almost 9. I think Lion might have been open for oral sex if we’d gotten that far.
Tonight, he wants to do Spankardy. His feeling is that my whacking his butt is enough of a turn on and that might jump-start things. I’m all for that. I’ll do everything in my power to make sure we play Spankardy and have time to play. I can even take my shower afterward. Since the spanking won’t be a punishment, there doesn’t need to be a delay between it and play. [Lion comments — I didn’t actually ask to play Spankardy tonight. My suggestion was that when we hit these dry spells, jazzing things up with Spankardy or other spanking games, could jumpstart my sexual motor.]
I think he’s been waiting for about a week now. He hasn’t been horny all of those days. I’m not even sure he’ll be horny tonight, but we can see. I don’t expect to be able to edge him. I think it’s still too soon for that. We can certainly have some fun, though. I like sucking on my weenie even if I don’t get the cream filling.
We still have plenty of time for an “early” orgasm. I don’t see him waiting another 13 days. The only reason to make him wait is if he’s not horny enough to get anywhere near the edge. Of course, I’ll have something to say about that. He can only resist my mouth for so long. He’s bound to need an orgasm long before we get anywhere near 21 days. If I had to guess, I’d say he’ll get one on Sunday. I’m not planning it. I’m just predicting. I think he’ll need/want one by Thursday. And we both know he doesn’t get one simply because he wants it.