Yesterday we slept late. I wasn’t going to get Lion a birthday cake because we usually refrigerate it and there was no space. Plus, he had a whole box of birthday goodies from New York. Did he really need a cake too? Yes. He did.

By the time I ordered the cake and we picked it up, it was after 1. Then we had lunch around 2. By dinner time we weren’t hungry, so we played the I-don’t-know-what-we-should-eat-what-do-you-think-we-should-eat game for a while and finally I made a salad. Although we had snuggled for a while watching TV, I admit sex was not on my mind. After we ate the salad I figured we were good till 10 when the dog has her ice cream and we could have cake. Nope.

Lion asked if we should have cake. I said I thought it was early. He said we could do other things. Then he said it was probably too late. He’d had a snooze earlier so he might have been okay, but it was then that I realized I’d forgotten all about sex. Duh! I’d made a point of saying this was his birthday weekend and then I forgot. Getting the cake had thrown off the timing of the day and apparently got me all out of whack. If it’s any consolation at all, the cake was very good.

We woke up around 7 this morning. I let the dog out and we hunkered down again. We woke up at 9:30 just like yesterday. Lion said he hoped waking up late didn’t mean no sex again. It does not. We won’t be going for a cake today so things should normalize. And today we won’t have a huge lunch at 2. Maybe we’ll even have sexy time in the afternoon (which always throws my evening off, but at least the Lion has sex). In any case, we’ll test out that sore spot on my weenie and see if it can hold up to some sucking.

I’m not promising that Lion will have an orgasm. He thinks he should. It’s been 21 days like last time. Does that mean his wait is now 21 days? It might be for these two times but not necessarily forever. The next time might be six days. I don’t know. I’m just throwing that out there. I don’t usually have a plan for his wait. If he’s a good boy, and the sore spot feels better, we may be resetting the orgasm clock later today.