Don’t Overthink It

Last night I went in search of ideas for a post. As I said, I’m the play-by-play reporter. When we don’t play, there’s little to report. So I did a search for female led relationship images. I thought a picture might trigger an idea. Nope. So I tried domestic discipline. I got a lot of pictures of men spanking women and some pictures advocating Christian domestic discipline. Corner time and mouth soaping also showed up.

There was something about the mouth soaping that bothered me. I guess it’s weird that, of all the things we do, mouth soaping bothers me the most right now. I think we’ve only done it three times, but I’m not so sure I want to do it again. Why? I’m not sure. It just seems like it crosses a line. What line? No idea.

It took a while for me to come around to the idea of after spanking “dessert”. Standing in the corner or sitting on a stool doesn’t hurt. It may be boring. It may be tiring It may be uncomfortable. But it does not hurt. And yes I am aware that I just made a welcome mat covering for the stool. It will be uncomfortable. Mouth soaping goes beyond that.

I don’t think it’s dangerous. Lion would never allow himself to have something dangerous done to him. I guess it could actually be dangerous. I made Lion hold the soap for too long and burned his mouth. It wasn’t severe. It was more of a wake up call. Pay attention to what you’re doing. And maybe that’s why I’ve come to the conclusion that mouth soaping crosses the line.

It’s not like we have any money invested in it. We started off with Ivory we had around the house from way back when, when we decided to try it. Ivory was too harsh so we moved on to my soap. Lion can handle my soap as long as I only make him hold it for a short time.

I’m not sure how disappointed Lion will be that he won’t have soap dripping from his mouth. My guess is not much. Don’t worry, Lion. We’ll find something else to replace it.