Between mowing the lawn, doing laundry, and doing some cleaning, I was done for yesterday. Despite taking Tylenol as a preemptive strike against achiness, I wound up achy anyway. Even trying to move next to Lion to snuggle hurt. And then once I got there, my neck got stiff so I had to move away again.

As we watched TV, someone mentioned something about not having sex. Lion said he knows what that feels like. Really? No sex? I must dispute this claim. I contend that Lion has sex more often than the average man. It’s true he doesn’t have an orgasm each time, but he has sex. It still counts.

Consider this. Many women have sex without ever having an orgasm. Unlike men, an orgasm for a woman is not required for procreation. Throughout much of history, men didn’t care if a woman had an orgasm or not. They had their orgasm, who cares about the woman? The man considers this sex.

If that’s the case, then Lion has sex each time I play with him. What if I had an orgasm and he didn’t? Still sex. What’s good for the goose…. But poor Lion didn’t have playtime last night, you say. Awwww. No sex for one night? And he’s horny? Darn! I think he can make it. He’s a big strong Lion.

Nope. I don’t have any sympathy for him. We play pretty much every night. Sometimes he doesn’t like what I do to him (like swatting his balls), but he doesn’t usually get to choose what form of play we do. Beggars can’t be choosers, as they say.

[Lion — Point taken. I do have fun even if I don’t come. I’ve had play about 175 times so far this year. I’ve had 31 orgasms, so I have an orgasm 17% of the time we have sex as Mrs. Lion defines it. Sex for me is over 80% non-orgasmic. ‘Nuff said.]

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    I can absolutely relate to your mixed feelings and dare I say it, confused thoughts about being caged. I want to wear it. I don’t want to wear it. Really, I want to be ‘made’ to wear it. To be made to wear it when I don’t want to wear it. Isn’t that the real fantasy?

    For the fantasy to work you have to be able to ‘believe’ that the Keyholder is doing it for herself and not doing it ‘for’ you. (Even if she is doing it for you or at least has complex motives).

    My wife and mistress (as she now prefers to be called) has become very good/strict of late. She has told me she prefers me locked up as I am better behaved, more attentive and more easily controlled. (Isn’t that hot!). She permits me a short time out for cleaning and exercises (to make sure her equipment is working) and when it is time to get locked back up she puts on her timer for a number of minutes and I must present myself locked up with the key before it has finished. If I fail to do so then I will be awarded from 10 to 50 lashes with a belt or strokes with a paddle or riding crop. Needless to say I no longer mess around especially since she has started increasing to 50. I have however negotiated than I am usually allowed 24 hrs out after an ‘O’. But she has so far not allowed longer than this.

    The thing is that I often do want to be let out for longer but the act of her making me get locked up is very powerful and once I am locked up I realise that is what makes me happier. It makes no sense at all! But the stricter she becomes the more I feel myself under her spell and the more loved I feel.

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