I’ve written a lot about why guys want enforced chastity; and even more about why I wanted it. In fact almost everything I ever read about it is from the male perspective. Other than Mrs. Lion, few keyholders write about their experience, and those who do write about their males.
I’ve been trying to figure out some of the reasons women may support our kink. I think it’s fair to say that those of us who have a serious interest in this kink have an underlying motive beyond penis bondage.
In my case it was years of sexual separation that prompted me to see if enforced chastity would make us sexually closer. Mrs. Lion knew that we had lost intimacy. She didn’t really think that a chastity device would make any difference, but figured it would make me happy for a while. It’s been three years and we both love it.
I think that some women have a very different reason. Some deeply love their husbands but aren’t very fond of penis. They enjoy intercourse and orgasms, but never enjoyed manual or oral contact with a penis. Some don’t even like looking at one.
In earlier times this was the norm. Girls were taught to lie back and hope he will be done soon. Some women feel that way now. For them and their husbands, enforced chastity is perfect.
The male wears a chastity device; often a tube that completely hides the penis. He locks himself up and gives her the key. His penis is effectively removed. While he’s locked up, she can ask him to pleasure her. He loves it. She gets sex without a penis. He loves the delightful frustration. It’s a true win-win.
After a while she gives him the key and he removes the cage. She can have him jerk off and then lock himself up again. Or, she can have him pleasure her with his hand or mouth and then let him mount her. In a short time he will ejaculate. Then she will have him lock himself up again.
If you read this from the male’s perspective, it’s a hot story. It sounds like the perfect chastity fantasy; denial, frustration and eventual orgasm. Perfect. As they say, when life gives you lemons make lemonade.