One of the more difficult problems we face is dealing with sex. If you have been reading our posts, an amazingly big part of forced male chastity is sex. That is surprising since our cages prevent sex. But that’s not really totally correct. The cages allow our keyholders to control our sexual experiences, not eliminate them. Thank goodness! My lioness is not all that interested in initiating sex. I’m not all that good at it either. Before I was caged, we had an uncomfortable standoff. Mrs. Lion was willing to forgo sex rather than initiate and I would get more and more horny, finally hinting in a very unsubtle way that I needed release. The net result was that I got a handjob or two a week and my poor lioness got nothing. This made me feel very guilty, but I just couldn’t work out how to break this cycle.
My interest in forced chastity has been around for over fifteen years. I made the recent (February 2014) decision to actually try it, not because I thought it would cure our problem, but because the idea really turned me on. As you know, she agreed. What happened next is chronicled here. What happened Friday night can only be described as a breakthrough. Let me start from the beginning.
Every day my lioness and I exchange affectionate text messages, telling each other how much we love one another. We also send one-word messages: “KISS”. Friday, I was thinking how nice it would be to lick her to orgasm. I got a chance to do that last week and loved it. I always love to taste my lioness. So, instead of KISS, I sent her “Lick (if you let me)”. She replied “Maybe”. Promising! I had initiated in a way consistent with my role as her caged male and she had replied appropriately.
Friday night, she uncaged me and I asked her if I could lick her. She agreed. I spent some really nice time between her legs enjoying her taste and smell. Yum! When she had enough, I rolled over on my back to rest a bit and to enjoy her scent lingering on my face. A few minutes later she sat up and began playing with my penis. It didn’t take long to get me hard and excited. I was really getting into it when she stopped. She then climbed on to me, and began to ride me. I really love that! She does too; she has her best penetration orgasms in that position. She had a lot of fun. I did too. She asked if I could come this way. I really couldn’t. I liked that. It meant I could please her without getting off myself. She said I could come if I wanted, but I really couldn’t. Usually, this position is guaranteed to make me come. She continued riding for several nice orgasms.
When she was done, she climbed off and began masturbating me again. I surprised myself by saying, “You know, just because you came doesn’t mean I have to.” She kept playing with me for a bit, then stopped. She told me I was all sticky and said I should wash off and then I could go back into my cage. I went to the bathroom and washed. By the time I got back, I was soft and she immediately caged me. I was really horny! But, I was also happy.
One of the key points in forced male chastity is that the keyholder uses her male’s penis for her pleasure without regard for the male’s satisfaction. I really wanted my lioness to do that. For the very first time that is what happened. She had a lot of fun using both my mouth and my cock for her pleasure and then locked me back up without me getting to come. Don’t get me wrong, I really want to come. I am not one of those guys who wants to see how long he can go without squirting. I like it too much. On the other hand, part of my fantasy is for my lioness to use me for her pleasure and then lock me up unsatisfied.
My lioness is a very kind woman. She wants me to have fun more than she wants to have fun herself. She is giving and generous. I also think that she doesn’t let me know what her needs really are. Now, for the first time, she put herself first and took her pleasure from me. You know, It was more satisfying for me than coming myself. I may have had intermittent erections all night as I thought of getting off, but I went to sleep with a smile on my face knowing that I pleased my lioness unselfishly. I really want that to happen again and again. Mrs. Lion made me really happy in a new and wonderful way.