Lion was tired last night so we snuggled. I had my hand on his thigh and he said I only needed to move it a few more inches…. This is when I get confused. Wasn’t he tired? Did I need to switch gears back to playing/sex? I know things are seldom black and white, but I need a little help navigating. My transmission is old and my gears are slow to change. Once I get on a heading, I like to maintain it. If I downshift, it takes a while to get back up to speed. Enough with the car metaphors.

I found one of the old restraints so I can tie Lion to the bed whenever he’s ready. My plan is still to give him an orgasm as soon as he can get there. It may take some encouragement to get him excited enough. I’m hoping being tied up will do the trick. I’m not saying I won’t use my feminine wiles to help things along. I just know Lion likes to be tied up and that goes a long way. I could always use some clothespins or tie his balls too, but I don’t want to overload his system. If more than one thing is happening, it’s difficult for him to concentrate. At least that’s what I think he said a long time ago. I could be completely wrong. [Lion — What I said was that you can only feel one painful stimulus at once. That is why TENS machines will induce a painful sensation one place to mask pain somewhere else.]

Whatever the case, he’ll be tied to the bed, and we’ll go from there. I’m not specifying any time frame. I don’t want to put pressure on him. It’s not like I’m suddenly going to revoke his orgasm. He’ll get it when he’s ready for it. Of course, I’ll do everything in my power to get him ready. I can be fairly persuasive. I think Lion will agree.

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