I leave tomorrow on my first business trip since the rotator cuff surgery. I have mixed feelings about going away once again. I love the destination and will enjoy seeing friends again. I’m going to miss my lioness. This is also the first time that I will be strictly on my own, day and night. I’m up to the challenge. While my ability to use my right arm is still limited, I can take care of everything I have to do to get along. That doesn’t mean I won’t be worried. There are a lot of things I know I can’t do. Hopefully, I can adapt and get help when needed.
Of course, being away means that our activities go on hold until I return. This hiatus isn’t going to devastate our newly-hatched anal program. That’s because the anus doesn’t return to it’s pre-penetrated state very quickly. Unlike the vagina, which bounces back after even the most extreme stretching, the anus behaves differently.
When the anus is stretched, it “learns” to expand to the size needed to accept the object it receives. This ability isn’t obvious. The anus does tighten up when an object is removed. But, it remembers it’s former state of relaxation. So, any penetration I receive this weekend isn’t wasted. After my four day trip, she can resume right where she left off.
Technically, anal training doesn’t have to start with a very small dildo. Anal stretching is more a matter of slow entry and then slight movement. The hardest part of being penetrated for me, is the initial entry. It hurts as my nether region is pried open. Lots of lube and patience for this initial entry is deeply appreciated. once the tip, or head, is in, the rest is not terribly uncomfortable.
Two things can cause considerable pain: The first is lack of lube. It’s important to provide a lot of lube. One helpful method is to use a large syringe; the kind you use to give medicine to kids. They’re inexpensive and can be used over and over again. Just fill it with lube, insert it so that the body of the syringe is almost all inside, then squirt out the lube. Then, repeat. The more lube the better. Also, be sure to lube up the anus and the dildo iself.
The second cause of pain is poop. You do remember that every ass has poop in it. If the bowel is full, during insertion, I will feel a sudden sharp pain. This is generally when the tip of the dildo hits something solid up there. It doesn’t happen all that frequently, but when it does, ouch! A very easy way to prevent this is to take an enema prior to the party. I use Fleet enemas. They are cheap and easy to administer. I buy the 7.8 oz enemas. Fleet’s also come in a 4 oz version. The greater quantity of fluid helps clean things out more.
If you wish, you can do a classic enema with about a quart of water. This works very well and can be part of your scene. It’s all a matter of preference. Some people take multiple enemas to make sure that the passage is totally poop free. This is generally not necessary.
Another, aesthetic form of preparation is to remove any hair near the anus. Shaving back there makes the view much more appealing for your partner. Needless to say, be freshly washed before beginning.
Despite all preparation, sometimes some poop comes out on the tip of the dildo. It’s a good idea to have a few paper towels available to put the dildo on when removed. They are also handy to wipe away the excess lube that will also be in the area. Have fun!