On the way to work I was thinking about how bondage and other kinky sex is portrayed on television. Most of the time there is a woman who gets paid to inflict pain or humiliate a man. Then I started wondering how many women are actually out there (or men for that matter) who get paid for their services. And how do they do it? Are they really into inflicting pain or humiliation or are they just doing it for the money? I’m sure there are some of each.
Some years back, an acquaintance discovered that Lion likes me to tie him up. It turns out he wanted the same thing. He was sure his wife would not react favorably and wondered if I would do it. Wow. No. I told him I was very new to it and not at all interested in playing with anyone but Lion. We did tell him about a group he could contact for more information, and we encouraged him to talk to his wife. She might surprise him. I have no idea what the outcome was.
I could never play with random people. The only reason I play with Lion is because I love him and I want to make him happy. I’m not knocking anyone who does it. It’s just not me. To me, it’s an intimate thing that I could only share with someone I care about. Maybe I’m a prude in that respect. I find it funny that I might be considered a prude given the things I’ve done to Lion, but I’m sure there are people out there who feel that way.
Ultimately it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. As long as I make Lion happy (even by making him unhappy during a spanking or other activity) that’s all that matters. Which reminds me, he’s due some swats for eating before I did this morning.