Chastity: The Opposite Of Sex?

Virtually everything you read on line about forced male chastity is about sex. Even here in our very own blog, so much is about both male and female sex and orgasms. If you read the “Lion’s Adventures” list on the right, you can see that I am not exactly sex starved. Yet, I wear an effective chastity cage 24/7. What’s going on?

Ironically, forced male chastity is about sex; well, more accurately about male sexual control. Some people use the chastity device to prevent male orgasm for a long time. Others, like me, get regular exercise at the keyholder’s discretion. That’s the key. My keyholder can grant or withhold sex without warning or negotiation. She can keep me safely locked away and I have nothing I can do about it. That’s why it’s called forced male chastity.

The fact she can do this, doesn’t mean she must. It means she can. Locking me up also prevents me from any do-it-yourself sexual expression. Unsupervised masturbation is obviously out. In fact, unsupervised arousal is out. The keyword is “supervise”. Before being locked up, my sexuality was shared at my discretion. Mrs. Lion could certainly pay attention to my cock, but when she wasn’t, I had full ability to get hard, masturbate, and ejaculate. I could also control if and when Mrs. Lion had access as well.

So what’s different now? Mostly it’s that my keyholder must be involved if my cock is able to get hard. She has to take some action for me to even be able to fully wash it. Otherwise I have to use the shower sprayer to do the best I can while it is still in its cage. Aside from the physical control, the cage creates a powerful mental change as well. I am now completely dependent on her for any sexual pleasure. That fact changes both of us. I realize that I  need to try to put her in an unlocking mood. She realizes that I am sexually dependent on her and because of that, she thinks more about my sexual needs.

Now, if this were “true” chastity, all that would be needed would be to lock me up indefinitely. She would have to occasionally free me for cleaning and inspection, but certainly no sex. In that case, I would almost surely lose interest in sex as the dry period continued. After a couple of weeks my interest would start to wane. Since that isn’t the purpose of forced chastity, our keyholders want us to keep wanting sex more and more, making every day harder to take. This provides a strong element of control. The more desperate for release I get, the more cooperative I will be. It doesn’t take long to learn that orgasm has to be earned. Mrs. Lion can decide what I have to do to earn it. Conversely, any displeasure I cause can extend the orgasm-free time. She can still unlock me and tease me to the edge. She is very good at that. This keeps my desire honed. Of course, all through this time, she can have me please her any way she wants without me being allowed to come.

One area of training that many keyholders work on is the ability of the caged male to provide intercourse for her without coming himself. Some women want several-times-a-day intercourse with the male never getting a chance to ejaculate. Face it guys, that’s our lot in life now. It’s exciting in concept, pretty hard to avoid coming, and frustrating as hell. Keyholders seem to love this.