You Did What?

I finished trimming the top of the hedge this morning. My arms are a little Jell-o-y but not as bad as yesterday. After asking me how I was doing, Lion sighed and said he guessed I wouldn’t be waxing him today. Whine much? Unless I am physically unable to move my arms, I’ll wax him later.

I’m not sure how I feel about Lion’s post from this morning. I knew he got a new toy. I knew it was for masturbation. But I didn’t know he’d try it himself. Usually, I’m involved in the process of anything like that, especially since he’s not allowed to masturbate. He’ll say he’s allowed to touch himself as long as he doesn’t get near the edge and he’s right. I did tell him he was allowed to play with himself idly, and it was okay if he got hard in the process. Of course, I meant if he was sitting at his desk and his hand wandered. I didn’t mean he should purposely do it. I’ll consider that a reasonable misunderstanding. A few weeks ago, I proposed Lion be able to masturbate in front of me and with my permission. He didn’t like the idea. He thought it was a slippery slope. So why would he think it was okay to try out a masturbation toy without me? [Lion — Maybe I was wrong. If it’s easier to let me jerk off, why shouldn’t she have me do it?]

It’s not that I’m always a fan of trying out his discoveries. I did wonder about the Fleshlight, and we got one to test. Then he got another similar toy. And another. And I’m all for trying new things to make things more satisfying for him. (I draw the line at adding another person, just for the record.) Some of those things work, and some don’t. But we test them out together. I guess I’m just surprised we didn’t with this one. Maybe I need to make a rule that I have to be asked if I want to help him try out a new toy. I didn’t think we needed one, but clearly, we do. I don’t care so much about chastity devices. If he wants to wear it long-term, I do. Just to test out fit or to take a picture of it, he can do it independently. But I have the first right to refuse to test a new toy with him, especially masturbation toys.

Lion, no doubt, will be surprised by this revelation. I’m not sure why. The masturbation rule has been in effect since we started male chastity. While I did give him some leeway recently, I certainly didn’t mean he could run with it. I hope we’re on the same page now. [Lion — OK.]