When I have time, I like to read about enforced chastity and female led relationships. I try to restrict my reading to sites that at least claim to be real-life experiences. I’ve learned that many, if not most of the so-called real experiences are rehashes of sexual fantasies. We also get comments and emails here that fit the same pattern.
The question I keep asking myself is, why do people bother claiming this stuff is real? Is there some special thrill about asserting the fantasy is real life? I can understand that by repeating these stories, the writer might (unlikely) get credibility and acceptance from other guys. It just seems so pointless to me.
Mrs. Lion continue to learn that building a lasting FLR takes years to establish. We are in our third year of enforced chastity/FLR and we are nowhere near feeling that we have made all the changes necessary to say we are comfortably settled in.
Maybe the reason all the trolls pretending to practice enforced chastity and FLR bother me so much is that their stories sound so hot and ours not so much. Our day-to-day reality is about integrating our new lifestyle. It takes thought and conversation to keep things working. Mrs. Lion has to consciously remind herself to enforce rules and her wishes. I have to remember to help her if things start to slip. It’s work; not a hot, jerk-off fantasy.
I’m not saying that it isn’t worth the effort. We both feel that we are doing the right thing. We find a lot of value completely outside the sexual heat these practices produce. Our relationship has improved as a result of our efforts. If you are just starting out, don’t expect instant success. It takes time.