From Caged Lion
I have been with my lioness over a decade. For over thirty years I have been involved with power exchange; most of that time as a top. A year or so before meeting Mrs. Lion I realized I wanted to be a bottom. Mrs. Lion had never even heard of such things when we first talked. She learned to be a top and for years I was spanked as needed as well as enjoyed other top/bottom activities. Slowly we stopped playing. Sex also diminished. We have always been best friends and love each other dearly. Over the last 15 years I have been writing about enforced chastity devices and have tested them for a few days at a time. Most of the devices were not comfortable and since my lioness wasn’t involved, it seemed pointless.
That changed in January of 2014. I saw some inexpensive chastity devices on amazon.com. Based on my prior experience, they actually looked like they could work. The first I tried had a urethral tube. This tube goes about two-inches into my penis. The advantage is that peeing standing up is no problem since the flow is directed through the tube. I found the tube a bit uncomfortable to insert, but otherwise comfortable. I was uneasy, however, about leaving the tube in long term. I worried about infection. So, I tried a cage without the tube. It was surprisingly comfortable. So, I approached Mrs. Lion about locking me up and she agreed.
I started this blog to provide a safe and useful source of information about forced male chastity. For years I have been annoyed by the silly male fantasies that represent the vast majority of “information” about enforced chastity. Worse yet, the so-called how-to books about chastity were also filled with misinformation. With my experience as a top and my current situation as a caged male, I figured the blog would give a real life view of being a caged male.
In February 2015 I asked Mrs.Lion to take much more control. We are now in a Female Led Relationship with domestic discipline. She has full control over me and enforces her rules with very severe spankings. This is the first time in my life I have been subject to so much control. Her disciplinary spankings are amazingly painful. There is nothing erotic or fun about them.
My hope is that we can help others with this interest get honest information about what it is like and how real people handle it.
From Mrs. Lion
As Lion said, I had no experience or even knowledge about this lifestyle. I did things to him, for him. He was always hopeful that I would be turned on by them. So far it hasn’t happened. But I enjoy making him happy. When he approached me about male chastity I thought it was just another thing to do for him. I didn’t really understand the lifestyle concept. I’m learning as we go. We’re learning as we go. And that, to me, is the most important part of the process.