A Short Enforced Chastity FAQ
When I drive home from work, I often have conversations in my mind about enforced male chastity. Ok, I need a life. But some of the stuff may be of some use. I imagine myself talking to a guy who is anxious to try enforced chastity. Here’s how it goes:
I’ve read a lot of posts by guys whose wives or girlfriends buy them a chastity device and “surprise” them with it. I’ve dropped a few hints, I wonder why my wife hasn’t done it yet?
The number one myth in enforced chastity is the one where the guy comes home from work and his wife/girlfriend presents him with a package and tells him to open it. When he does, he asks her what it is, and she tells him. She then tells him to put it on (or puts it on him) and lets him know he will be wearing it from now on. I get five or ten of these stories a month as comments to various pages. They go right into the trash. This is a story, nothing more. Virtually every caged male got that way because he asked someone to lock him up. The story usually includes “sins” the guy committed that prompted her to cage him. Well, wrong again. The last thing a pissed off partner is thinking about is locking up his penis. If you want to be locked up, you will have to ask your partner to become your keyholder.
Guys often write that once locked up, they want to do housework, wear panties, and service their keyholders endlessly.
If you didn’t want to do those things before, being locked up and horny probably won’t change anything. You don’t become a different person because your dick is in a cage.
I’ll give my keyholder any kind of sex she wants when she orders me to do it.
Damn big of you, fella! Is the reason you want to be locked up that you want her to take the sexual initiative? If so, you’re like me and many other caged males. The thing is, don’t even start to pretend you are being forced. Look at it from her perspective. She is with a guy who needs her to cage his cock and then demand he lick her in order to get sex. It can’t make her feel very good about herself to believe you need physical force to go down on her. It can’t help her self esteem, or for that matter, her opinion of you to be in that situation. Try telling her how much you want to please her and how hot it is for you to hear her let you know what you can do.
I need a chastity device that will make it impossible for me to get out and jerk off.
Really? Ok, here’s the deal. There are devices that are pretty hard to escape. They are also not terribly comfortable. You’ll see guys writing about how they need the smallest possible base ring (the ring that goes around your cock and balls) so that when the cage is on, they can’t pull out. Guess what? The smaller the base ring, the more pain you will be in. What doe those guys do? They lube the area the ring covers several times a day. It still hurts, but hurts less. If they were a bit smarter about things, they would realize that what prevents the from jerking off is their commitment to their keyholders, not the security of the device. My device fits me well. It would be difficult to pull out, but it is possible. However, I will never do that. My sexual pleasure belongs to Mrs. Lion. Period. As a result, my device is so comfortable, I frequently forget I am wearing. Isn’t that better?
There you go. A bit of Q and A hatched in my car on the way home from work.
Wonderful Sunday Afternoon
As you’ve read, I gave Lion a bonus orgasm yesterday. I played with him while I was manscaping and then we started snuggling. There’s just something about being close and the wonderful noises he makes when I touch him that made me want to make him come. He was bucking into my hand and then my mouth with such urgency. And I know I could have made him wait. But why? Neither of us is much into the waiting thing. I mean, there’s no reason to go nine days or twenty-seven days. It’s just a number. And I’ve always thought my real power is the fact that I can make him happy.
Before I let him come I asked him what I get for making him come. And he said that I can have anything any time, regardless of whether he comes or not. Which is not just his horniness talking. We would both do anything for the other. And that, ultimately, is why I gave him an orgasm. Plus I got to taste him. That’s my bonus.
The calendar still says November 17. It’s just not mocking him at the moment. It will in a few days when he starts to feel horny again. I’m thinking about teasing him every day till then just to make his shortened wait feel a little longer. I may have given in to his horniness yesterday but that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped torturing him. Remember, it took him less than a week to get super horny this time. He still has a week to go. Plenty of time to up the intensity.
Grateful Lion
Last night Mrs. Lion teased me without mercy. She pushed me to the edge over and over. I loved it! When she finished I was desperate to orgasm. None was offered. I was put back in my cage dripping. I wasn’t mad at Mrs. Lion. I had a great time. For some unknown reason, I was much more desperate than usual. It was six days and that is right in the “sweet spot” of needing to come, but still, this was more intense.
Then she wrote her post for yesterday. In it she promised that while she was grooming me, she would give me a bit more teasing. She was true to her word. While she was shaving and epilating, she got in some rubbing and a bit of sucking. She said,
You must be very horny.
How can you tell (smiling)?
You are longer than usual.
Longer? Well, yes. When I am really ready, my cock gets longer. I suspect most males do too. I said we should do another cast of my cock. But the truth was that I had interest in only one thing: release! After the grooming, Mrs. Lion rubbed my tummy and I scooched up in the bed so her hand could more conveniently reach lower in case she wanted to touch there. It turns out that she did. She played with my cock and I was rock hard and bucking against her hand. She said that she likes to see me squirm.
Was I squirming?
(Laugh) Oh yes.
I could feel myself trying to get the most out of every touch. Then, to my complete surprise, Mrs. Lion moved between my legs and began sucking me. She didn’t stop when I get near the edge. She kept going through an enormous orgasm. Wow, did I need that! I was truly desperate. Could I have waited another eight or nine days? Yes, if I had to. But, I am sure glad I didn’t. In fact I was eying the drawer where I keep my love coupons. I was very seriously considering using one to get off.
I feel much better now. I don’t know why Mrs. Lion decided to show me mercy, but boy am I grateful!
Mad Lion
Lion is horny. Desperately horny. Last night he asked if it was play with Lion night and when I said yes he was very excited. He was hard almost immediately, despite the fact that he had evil Velcro wrapped around him. I didn’t leave it on long. I had other plans for him.
A few days ago he asked to be teased more often and for longer. Well, I didn’t accommodate the more often part, but I did do it for longer. Actually maybe it wasn’t technically longer. I edged him seven times in fairly rapid succession. I got him very close. And after I let him rest a bit I sucked him. He told me I could put him out of his misery. I could, but I wouldn’t. Instead, I sucked him again. Not to the edge, but enough to get him bucking. And then after a rest, another round of sucking.
When I was finally done with him, he was very frustrated. He told me I have a wonderful mouth. And then when I tried to snuggle with him he told me he loved me, but he was mad. Poor boy. Poor frustrated boy. He has eight more days to go. I think they may be the eight longest days he’s had in a long time. I hope he’ll be on his best behavior. Now he knows I’m not afraid to add time to his wait. His next indiscretion might earn him more than a day.
Today I need to unlock him again to do some manscaping. I’m sure he’ll get a few tugs from me. Maybe some more sucking. He might even get edged a time or two before he gets locked up again. Just to add fuel to the fire.
