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It is New Year’s Eve. I hope you have safe and fun plans. We will be home and will watch the ball drop in New York. That happens at 9 PM our time. Seattle offers an anemic fireworks display at the Space Needle. It’s accompanied by a horrid medley of pop tunes picked out by a local DJ. Seattle is a premier example of a small city with absolutely no taste. It isn’t as bad as L.A., but still pretty bad. It amazes me that the home city of Amazon, Microsoft, and T-Mobile can’t muster more than a pathetic display on New Year’s Eve and the Fourth of July. The city does sport a first-rate symphony orchestra and a third-rate opera company. There is also a very active theater community. Unlike New York, Seattle’s is all non-profit. Don’t get me started on the TV stations. We did better stuff in high school.

Anyway, Mrs. Lion did spank me on Thursday (punishment day). She had me yelping and trying to escape. Those wooden paddles really sting. I’m writing this post on Saturday. She informed me that I would be spanked again. Sex was also possible if she spanked me early enough for me to recover in time for oral. Since it’s 1 PM now, I’m not sure if she will be early enough for me to get attention on both sides. One of us will keep you posted.

The othe day we tried an Edex injection with rather limp results. It may have been that we missed the right spot or I didn’t get the right amount of the drug set up. It’s a little tricky, and I have missed before. I’m hoping we will try again tonight or New Year’s Eve. Before our last try, Mrs. Lion applied some IcyHot to my perineum. That’s the most sensitive area for me. It’s also out of the way so she won’t bump into it when she sucks me. When she gives me a racing stripe (follows from perineum all the way up the seam in my balls), it gets in her way if she decides to suck me.

We both hope you have a happy New Year and celebrate safely.

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We did not use Edex last night. I assume that means we’ll use it tonight. It’s also punishment day. Lion reminded me like he’s supposed to. Normally, that would get him out of a spanking, but the other day, I said maybe we should go back to spankings on punishment days. The purpose of having set days was to get us (me) into the habit of punishing him. Since I’ve clearly gotten out of practice, it seems I need a refresher course. Lion can use one too.

I never liked to punish him on the same day as sex because I thought it sent mixed signals. Is he in trouble enough to be spanked, but good enough to have sex? To me, there’s a conflict. Never mind the fact that his buns will be burning when I’m trying to get him off. I don’t think Lion likes this “rule”. In fairness, he has had sex after punishment with no issue.

If he’s fine with having sex and punishment on the same night, I’m fine with it. The only question I have is which happens first? I like to spank him when he gets out of the shower. If I wait, it’s likely to be forgotten. Unfortunately, the same is true of sex. To muddy the waters even more, since we’ve stopped eating lunch, we tend to be hungry so we’ll have celery or olives to tide us over. Lion is usually in bed, trying to stay warm and then, inevitably, he falls asleep.

It’s not all that complicated of a problem. We just have to decide what to do. Obviously, things happen, so our decision can’t be steadfast anyway. Things will have to revolve around whether Lion is even horny on any given punishment day.  And if we decide spanking comes first, maybe he won’t be horny afterwards. Problem solved. Sort of.

I’m open to either. He’s the one who has to endure the beating and then be okay for sex.

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I’m writing this on the day after Christmas. Mrs. Lion spanked me on Christmas day.  There wasn’t much blood, but there was a lot of yelping. She said her shoulder was sore. I couldn’t tell by the strength of her swats. She was in rare form. Later, we had our turkey dinner. There was no sex, just two well-fed, tired lions; one had a sore bottom.

There’s a chance we will have some sex today, a Boxing Day treat for me. Something to look forward to later today. Yum!

I’ve been wondering if, after all of the weight we’ve both lost, Mrs. Lion could do over-the-knee spanking. It’s more idle curiosity than any sort of need. OTK would simplify the process for her since she wouldn’t need to get the spanking bench down. On the other hand, it might make it more difficult to swat me. Neither of us has any childhood OTK memories, so there is no emotionally valuable reason to change the way we do things. Just curious. I’ve never experienced OTK.

In my experience, curiosity, sexual arousal, and any desire to control how, where, and when I’m spanked, disappears within a minute or two of Mrs. Lion applying her paddles to my bottom. Curiosity and suggestions are reserved for times like this when I am some distance from the paddle.

Mrs. Lion almost never takes my suggestions to heart. She doesn’t even discuss them. That’s fair. Spanking is completely under her control, and she will spank me the way that works best for her. My only job is to make my bare bottom available for her minstrations.

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I have to admit that I’m confused. Mrs. Lion has been writing about wanting to spank me, play, and have sex. Yet, in real life, she has been distant and apparently uninterested in anything involving me. This afternoon (Sunday), I asked what she had on her agenda. She responded that she planned on clearing some cartons in the living room. Not even slightly promising.

Is she waiting for me to ask her to spank me? That makes no sense at all. When it comes to sex, for the last couple of months, I have had to ask her. That’s uncomfortable at best. I guess it’s time to give up. She is absolutely uninterested. Yesterday, she wrote (“A Nice, Long Weekend“) that she owes me a spanking for interrupting her. Once again, in real life, she’s been silent.

This is one of those situations that I’m not well equipped to handle. Here’s what I face. When I finish this post and go into the bedroom to watch TV, she will tell me that I was busy watching TV, so she didn’t have a chance to do so (fill in the blank). If I stay here in my office, I’ll get the same answer. There’s nothing I can do or not do that will trigger anything interactive.

If she decides to read this post before it’s too late to play, she might respond verbally. I’m not counting on it. My guess is that she’ll do the cartons, water the epiphytes, and then go back to her iPad. If she reads my post, there’s no guarantee that she will respond. Her usual comment is, “It was a good post.” The subject matter is ignored.

No matter. I love her and will spend the rest of my life with her.