When I think about sex toys, my mind never drifts toward pillows. Yet, Mrs. Lion and I have long struggled to find a really good position for me when I’m spanked or when she wishes to peg me. I always thought that if I was on my knees, I would be presenting my rear perfectly for her use. The first time we tried this when I had earned a spanking, I was flat on my tummy in seconds. It hurt too much for me to stay in that position.

We tried stacking bed pillows on the edge of the bed with me lying on top of them in order to get me at a height where my bottom was stretched tight and presented nicely. They were too squishy and just couldn’t hold me still.

The problem is simple but very difficult to solve. Mrs. Lion likes me draped over the edge of the bed. In that position, my rear end isn’t stretched it all. Some folds of skin even develop. The area Mrs. Lion needs to spank — the lower half of my butt and my upper thighs — is draped below the edge of the bed. It’s uncomfortable for Mrs. Lion to try to spank me over her lap. That position stretches the butt nicely and puts it in an easily accessible location for spanking but doesn’t work for Mrs. Lion.

I had received an email from a company that sells very interesting toys. It’s called Tabutoys. One item on their site was brand-new to me. It is a triangular-shaped foam pillow explicitly designed to put the rear end in a very accessible position: the Pillo. The manufacturer intended it to allow a woman to present her rear for penetration. However, it seemed to me that this product might be the answer to our spanking and anal challenges. I ordered one.

It arrived beautifully packed in a large black box. The positioning pillow itself is made of a hard, yet-yielding foam. It has a waterproof inner cover with a soft fabric cover on the outside. The outside cover is washable and the inside cover protects the foam and can be wiped off if needed. My theory was that if I put the pillow on the edge of the bed so that my thigh joints draped over the edge, my butt would be higher and because of the triangular shape of the pillow, it would be at an angle more accessible to Mrs. Lion.

I was concerned that it might not be wide enough to accommodate me or it might not be firm enough to actually hold me in position. It turned out that it was plenty wide and was absolutely firm enough to keep me right where she wants me. We were both surprised at how well it actually works. Its first use was for a punishment spanking. It’s hard for me to be objective about this but I believe that right from the start her swats hurt more. It felt similar to the spanking I received when on my knees.

When used for fun, it provides a very firm support for anal play including pegging. Since my weight is distributed over my entire body, there is none of the fatigue I normally feel when on my knees for a long period of time. Also, because this is a stable position, the softness of the mattress doesn’t make me wobble when Mrs. Lion is using a dildo.

This product isn’t cheap. It retails for $95. It’s worth it! This rather simple design does its intended job perfectly. The quality is very good and the service from Tabutoys is excellent. What started out as an odd idea has turned out to be one of the most useful additions to our kink collection. It solves a very real problem for us.

Click here to visit the product page.

Click here for Tabutoys home page.

evotion orion
This is the black Evotion Orion male chastity device. This is how mine will look when it is reprinted.

The Evotion people got back to me about replacing the dog-chewed component of my Orion male chastity device (My Evotion Dog Snack). They offered to print a new one at a reasonable cost. Since I had trouble with fading on my original device, they strongly suggested I get the jet black version. Unlike the other colors, this version is actually printed using black nylon material. It will stay the same color. They also offered to reprint (it seems so odd to refer to a solid device being “reprinted”) the entire device so that the colors would match.

I’m in love with the matte black finish. I think it has a macho, industrial feel to it. I’m especially impressed by how understanding Yvonne at Evotion has been. It’s clear that she is very sensitive to how I feel about my chastity device. That means a lot to me. Aside from being cool looking, the black Orion resolves the details of the design even better than the red one I had before.

Even before the dog ate my chastity device, I had decided that for me the Orion is absolutely perfect in terms of comfort and function. Unlike other devices I have worn, including the Jail Bird, the longer it stayed on the happier I became with it. Because it’s made from medical-grade nylon, it’s very light. A good deal of the time I’m unaware that it’s even there. Because of the design, I can hardly feel pressure when I attempt to get erect. Everything stays very well contained and comfortable. That means my sleep is never interrupted by the chastity device.

My pet peeve with wearing a cage is difficulty with peeing standing up. The head of my penis can move inside of the Jail Bird cage, for example.  My urethra can be partially blocked by one of the bars. That means that urine sprays everywhere unless I use a Q-tip to push the head back into position. That is a real annoyance for me. I had similar problems with every other chastity device I’ve tried. I know other men do as well. Many just end up sitting down to urinate.

lion's penis head
Center section “locks” into the groove under the head.

My urethra stays centered and in place when I wear the Orion. I don’t have to think about it at all when I need to go to the bathroom. I haven’t had a single problem urinating standing up while wearing it. I consider that amazing. There is a good reason it works so well. Inside the center section, there is a circular ring at the very front. When the devices put on, I pull the shaft back until the head of my penis (glans) is just poking out from that section. The ring seats itself in the depression between the head of my penis and the shaft. The third piece of the device covers the tip of my penis. Because of that ring inside the center section, the head of my penis cannot move back. It’s locked into position. That means it’s always correctly centered. How cool is that?

The “ring” at the front of the center section fits into the groove just behind the head of the penis. This effectively locks it into position.

Obviously, measuring correctly is important for this device to work well. The Evotion website gives you all the information you need to correctly measure. The measuring process is very different than it is for other devices. Length measurements are done along the top of the shaft. This makes it much easier to get things right. It’s absolutely critical to get each measurement as perfect as you can. My device fits like a second skin.

It took me a while to get used to the way it looks. There is a gap between the center section and the tip. A small amount of skin is visible. This is the bottom of the head. It’s not particularly erotic and useless in terms of trying to cheat. It just looked a little bit weird because I was used to wearing devices that completely covered my penis.

I really like wearing this device. I miss it. For the moment, Mrs. Lion is letting me remain wild. I could end up in my Jail Bird temporarily until the replacement Orion gets here. I don’t look forward to the Russian roulette game of urinating while wearing it. I’m completely spoiled after wearing my Evotion Orion. I can’t wait until my replacement arrives.

Let’s face it, everything we are writing about relates back in one way or another to male masturbation. I’m defining the term “masturbation” narrowly. It applies to any activity that will bring a male to ejaculation without inserting it in an orifice. That means oral sex, anal sex, and of course vaginal sex are not forms of masturbation. The vast majority of my sexual experience is masturbation.

I guess I have to open the topic up a bit. Most of my sexual experience doesn’t result in ejaculation. I’m brought close to it, but not permitted to actually ejaculate. I don’t think that matters very much in terms of this post. I’m also assuming that masturbation includes any penis stimulation that isn’t actually inside of an orifice. That means that when Mrs. Lion plays with me, she’s masturbating me. Fair enough?

Enforced male chastity by definition is preventing masturbation. Chastity devices were invented in the late 19th century for that express purpose. In those days it was believed that masturbation led to insanity and idiocy. Our sex life, Mrs. Lion and I, is 100% about male masturbation and oral sex. My penis is the focus of all of our sexual activity. Mrs. Lion considers it her penis since she controls it. I just carry it around.

When I am allowed to ejaculate, about one-third of the time it happens in Mrs. Lion’s mouth. She really likes that. However, it takes a lot of energy and uncomfortable positioning to suck me so she usually defaults to using her hand.

Contrary to almost all other male sexual activity, mine would be best for her if I could get to orgasm as rapidly as possible. Any energy she expends getting me to the edge isn’t particularly pleasurable for her. I’ve researched training a male to ejaculate on command. It’s largely a myth. It takes as long as it takes for me to get to the top of my orgasmic curve.

Mrs. Lion uses some tricks to help get me more aroused. After all, no matter how talented she is with her hands, it’s still jerking me off. I can get bored with that. She’s discovered that various BDSM activities from spanking to cock and ball torture gets me more excited. The more excited I am, the more likely she can get me to the edge of orgasm.

Obviously, the long lead up to the point when I’m close to ejaculation is more work than fun for Mrs. Lion. She starts enjoying herself when I am close to the edge. Ideally, it would be very helpful if she had a way to save some work getting me to that point. Toward that end, I’ve acquired some male masturbators. These are devices designed to get a man off.

There are surprisingly few on the market if you don’t include the cheap vibrators. So far, the only reliable one Mrs. Lion can use on me is our Magic Wand vibrator. This is a powerful hand-held vibrator that’s been on the market for years. We have a rechargeable version that she moves on the bottom of my penis from head to about halfway down. It’s a very reliable way to get me off.

Venus 2000 in action.

There are masturbators that are worn over the penis designed to feel like oral or vaginal sex. The best that I’ve tried is the Venus 2000 by ABCO. This machine uses a vacuum pump and complex valves to create pulsating suction. It has a “receiver” that is a tube with a silicone liner that pulsates from the vacuum. I had one many years ago. It took me quite a while to figure out which settings worked best. Once I did it was really great. The big drawback is that the receiver is heavy and you have to hold it in place. The biggest problem is the price. It costs about $1000. You can control the length of each stroke. You can also make it go faster or slower. So far, it’s the only one that actually worked for me.

There are newer, less expensive devices. One is the Lelo F1. This device is a cylinder with a silicone sleeve inside and a powerful vibrator. The vibrator can be controlled to provide more or less power. What makes this device potentially interesting is that it contains a nice selection of sensors that report the state of both the machine and the penis inside it. There is a demo phone app that allows you to control the vibrator and observe the readings of the sensors. The manufacturer has just released a software development kit that will allow programmers to build applications that can use the feedback from the sensors to change the way the device behaves. Theoretically, this biofeedback should allow optimization of sensations.

The Lelo F1. Penis sleeve and powerful vibrator with sensors.

I tried it as it is now. The vibrations are powerful. The manufacturer claims they are so powerful that you will feel them throughout your penis and they will stimulate you to a wonderful orgasm. I didn’t get that result. If I inserted my soft penis, the device couldn’t get me hard. If I inserted my erect penis, it felt good but the sensations didn’t build to the point that I was even close to an orgasm. Perhaps if someone writes an app with the biofeedback from the sensors, the device would be smart enough to find the best sensations for me.

We only tried it once. That’s not really fair. I think Mrs. Lion will try again. I don’t have a lot of confidence that it will really do the trick. The reason for this is that the concept of vibrating my entire penis enough to get all of the right nerve endings seems unlikely. I’ll watch out to see if an app is developed and will see.

This is how the Autoblow ai works. The position, stroke length, and speed are computer-controlled.

The only other “real” masturbator is the Autoblow this is a tube with a silicone sleeve inside. The sleeve is connected to a motor drive that moves up and down the same way a partner’s mouth might move. The latest version the “ai” claims to have artificial intelligence incorporated in its design. The manufacturer hired a machine learning design company to analyze thousands of porn blow job videos to simulate how the end-to-end experience worked. Then, the manufacturer used a microprocessor and various sensors to simulate that motion with the Autoblow.

I purchased one (the price varies anywhere from $150-$250 depending on current sales). It has 10 different masturbation patterns. Mrs. Lion and I tried it and I sampled each of the patterns. Some felt better than others. During that first session, it couldn’t get me close. Unlike the other masturbators I’ve tried, this one may have the potential to do the job helping Mrs. Lion get me to the edge. We will try it again and see if we can’t figure it out. The big drawback with this device as well as the others is that they require lube. That means that when Mrs. Lion decides to take over, she will either have to deal with a lubed penis or get me cleaned off before she can do her thing. Cleaning me off takes time and is distracting. It could very well destroy the progress the automation gave her.

The Hot Octopus Jett has two powerful vibrators: a low-frequency and a high-frequency unit.

There are other vibrators that attach to the penis. Most of them sit under the head at the sensitive spot. I tried a few. It’s possible that one or two could have got me off. I didn’t feel that really nice buildup Mrs. Lion’s hand or mouth provides. Maybe I’m spoiled. More likely, we haven’t discovered the right combination of devices and settings that will do the job.

People who make sex toys are not generally very sophisticated. They also don’t have big research budgets. The problem is that while jerking off looks the same from the outside, getting it just right is a very individual problem to solve. I think that the hybrid of the F1 and the Autoblow offer the possibility of a really effective sex machine for men.

Pressure sensors to record how hard the penis is along with temperature sensors, etc. could provide the sort of biofeedback that would allow the Autoblow motion to be optimized from the beginning of a session to the climax. The biggest problem with products like the Venus 2000 is that their motion is constant. Mrs. Lion knows that she has to vary the speed and pressure to provide me with the most arousal. A device like the Autoblow that could sense my reaction to it and adjust, could offer a reasonable way to come close to real sex.

Even though it’s tiring and somewhat boring for her, Mrs. Lion’s hand and mouth represent the only reliable way to get me to the edge. Thank you, sweetie!

Evotion Wearables has been around since 2014. They started out making male chastity devices for men who have Prince Albert or frenum piercings. They’ve been using 3D-printing to produce their devices from the beginning. Many of the piercing-required devices only have a covering for the penis shaft. There is no ball ring. I believe that this can be a defect since the penis can grow longer if not thicker when just restrained by a piercing shaft container.

Evotion recently came out with their Evotion Orion male chastity device. Unlike their other products, this one is designed for men with no penis piercing. It incorporates features that have evolved over the years of making piercing-only devices. As far as I know, it’s absolutely unique.

Every other device I’ve worn comes in two pieces: the base ring and the penis tube or cage. The cage locks onto the base ring providing the required sexual prevention functionality. I’ve had a lot of trouble with almost every device I’ve worn. Even custom devices like my Jail Bird make it difficult to urinate standing up. The Cherry Keeper, another 3D-printed device added a feature called the “headlock”. This is a little shelf that fits just below the head of the penis. It keeps the head in a single position inside the top of the cage. I considered this a major breakthrough. The headlock made sure that my urethra would remain centered and I could safely stand to pee. It turned out that there still was enough motion inside the top of the cage that sprays frequently resulted.

The Evotion Orion is a three-piece device. There is a base ring, a center shaft container, and a headcover. This design conforms to their piercing-only devices. They feature a shaft cover and a separate headcover. The shaft cover locks onto the headcover and the headcover is locked onto the piercing.

In the case of the Orion, there are two locks: one that locks the base ring to the shaft cover, and the second that locks the shaft cover to the headcover. It turns out there is an extremely good reason for this type of construction. More about that later.

The Orion is a custom device. It’s priced similarly to the Jail Bird. Sometimes there are specials that offer a lower price. When I first looked at the device, it cost $369 for the standard nylon version. It’s also available in 3D-printed metal as well. Those versions are much more expensive. This is a pretty high price for 3D-printed cages. However, unlike their competitors, Evotion hand finishes these devices and provides them with a beautiful high-gloss finish. Mine, as you can see from the pictures is a nice candy apple red. If I ever get of Ferrari, the device will match.

Like most custom devices, the Orion needs accurate measurements in order to be made to fit perfectly. Evotion offers very good advice on how to do this measuring. Unlike most two-piece devices, Evotion needs different parts of the penis to be measured. First and foremost, you must be absolutely flaccid. Even the slightest hint of arousal will make a mess of your measurements. Unlike the Jail Bird and other cages, Evotion needs measurement along the top of your penis from your body to the beginning of the glans (the head). Without any stretching or arousal, measure from your body to the point where the head gets wider. Every penis has a “shoulder” where the wider head meets the shaft. The first measurement needs to capture that value.

The second measurement is one that is required for most devices, it’s the circumference or diameter of the flaccid shaft itself. This is a measurement that needs to be taken several times. It’s critical that you get this one right. The third measurement is the circumference or diameter of the head at the widest point just above the “shoulder”. Next, they need the measurement for the length of the head. I used a digital caliper for these measurements. It’s difficult to use this without distorting things since you can push the caliper too hard and it will compress what you’re measuring. But if you are careful, and keep trying several times you will get a consistent, accurate measurement. Last, they need the base ring diameter.

Evotion Wearables prides itself on personal service. After I sent them my measurements, they came back to me with questions. They wanted to be sure that I had accurately measured. When they and I were both satisfied we had them right, they put the device into production. Like many of the other custom devices, expect to wait 4 to 6 weeks after ordering before you will receive your new device. By the way, they will mold into the head anything you would like to put there in the way of a message. Obviously, it can’t be a very long message. Mine says, “LION”. I consider it a sort of name tag so it won’t get mixed up with others (LOL).

It turns out that putting your Orion on isn’t intuitive. Evotion doesn’t provide any instructions on how to actually put on the device. I got it wrong in the beginning. I had to contact them and ask them to offer me some help. Mrs. Lion kindly worked with me to give you the illustrated guide on how to put one on.

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The basering is wider than most devices I’ve worn.

When you receive it, you’ll see that the key for the connection between the base ring in the shaft section goes in behind (toward your body) on the base ring. I wondered about that since most of the devices I’ve worn have the base ring sitting tightly against my abdomen. Also, the fittings that connect the various pieces of this device are more like plugs and sockets, then sliders. The shaft section fits into the base ring by depressing it (squeezing the shaft of your penis) and getting it under its socket and the base ring. Then it essentially clicks into place. Once you work out how to do this without pinching, it’s actually elegant and easy.

I was getting a little aroused when Mrs. Lion
put the middle piece on. Even calm, much
of my penis was sticking out.

When I put it on the first time I pulled my penis through the shaft section until the shaft piece was against the base ring. This left a considerable amount of my penis hanging out of the front of the shaft section (see picture, left). Mrs. Lion then tried to squeeze the headpiece over this skin. Eventually she managed to do it. I had a whole bunch of skin hanging out between the head cage and the shaft piece. That didn’t seem right to me.

Next, pull back the penis behind the basering
until only the head sticks out.

I sent a picture to Evotion and they agreed this was not the right way to wear it. They sent me a link to a very short video that showed a man adjusting his Orion. It turns out that once you lock the shaft piece against the base ring, you then pull the penis back from behind the base ring until just the head peeks out from the front of the shaft section. This seemed really odd to me. It sort of looked like a lot of my penis was behind the base ring.

Alignment is right when just the head pokes out
from the center section. No other skin should show.
Don’t worry about the bunching in back.

Once I did that and only the head was showing, it was easy to lock the headcover on. The folks at Evotion pointed out to me that they actually invented the so-called “headlock” that is part of the Cherry Keeper. At the very front of the shaft piece, there is a molded-in ring that sits in the groove just below the head. It essentially prevents the head from slipping backward. The head of the penis is firmly locked into place.

I’m not sure if this “locking mechanism” prevents pullout. I am sure it doesn’t make it easy. More importantly, it prevents the head from sliding backward. It has to stay firmly in contact with the front of the cage. This, in turn, guarantees that my urethra is centered in the opening designed for it. It became very clear why accurate measurements were necessary. When I had adjusted the device correctly I sent a picture back to Evotion and they told me that the fit was absolutely perfect.

Within an hour or less of putting the device on that excess skin behind the base ring disappeared into the device and it fit very much the same way as any other male chastity device. Just pull the scrotum forward through the base ring and all will tighten up nicely. The base ring is substantially wider than on any other device I own. It lends stability and doesn’t cause me any discomfort.

After pulling the scrotum forward, the device fits
correctly and comfortably.

The device is essentially invisible under clothing. It’s nicely centered between my balls and creates a discrete bulge that doesn’t reveal what’s going on. Once I got it on correctly, the Orion turned out to be the most comfortable male chastity device I’ve ever worn. I only had a little bit of slight pinching from the base ring once or twice and that was easily fixed with a slight, subtle adjustment.

Most exciting for me, was the fact that I can confidently urinate standing up without even bothering to check if my urethra is in the right position. The unique design of the Orion held my penis in the correct position over multiple days of wear. This is now the device I wear every day.

The Orion has a “head trap” inside the middle section.
When you pull your penis back, the “trap” sits just under the head, effectively locking it in place.

The Evotion Orion isn’t perfect. The manufacturers claim that the filigree pattern (you have your choice of several, I picked hearts) provides adequate ventilation. I found that I could keep myself pretty clean by showering, but hours after bathing, when Mrs. Lion removed the device, my penis was still damp. After two days and two showers, there was a distinct unpleasant smell in the loose skin below the head of my penis.

This odor was not detectable until after the cage was off and Mrs. Lion was playing with me. I suppose my standards are a bit high because I’ve always worn open cage designs. Those men who have been wearing tubes, are used to this issue. Even though there are some open areas in the device, I would classify this as a tube-type male chastity device. That means that the device has to be removed and the penis washed and dried every few days to prevent potential problems. This is not an issue for us. Mrs. Lion unlocks me almost every day. It does mean that she needs to unlock me earlier some of the time to allow me to take a shower while wild.

Wearing a chastity device always involves some compromise. Our penises were not designed to be locked up. However, with a little care, the Evotion Orion can definitely become your standard male chastity device for long-term wear. Its glossy finish looks pretty durable. However, when I cleaned it in my ultrasonic cleaner, the water did have a slight pink tinge. The finish will probably wear out over time.

If you ever have a problem with fit or if something breaks, Evotion can make you new parts. A new base ring, for example, costs $150. Obviously it pays to measure correctly the first time!

You can find the Evotion Orion on the Evotion website. Please let them know you heard about them from us. They might offer you a special price. No guarantees.

I am extremely happy with my Evotion Orion. Mrs. Lion likes the way it works and after some practice, is able to get it on-and-off me without too much pinching or aggravation. It’s much more fun being a caged lion if I am in a nice shiny red cage with my name on it.