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my new panties

(Left) front view of pink panties, (Right) back view of green pair Lion is wearing today instead of a diaper. Fair trade?

Lion’s bruise is healing nicely now that he’s out of the cage. We think the cage impaired blood flow. With no restrictions, the dark purple-brown has been reduced to a faded brown. When Lion is in his collar, he still has a reminder on that he’s got to watch his step. Yesterday, before he left for work, he did a little happy dance that he was wild and uncollared. Last night I decided that, since he’d like to remain wild until the bruise heals completely, he’d have to be in a diaper while he’s home from the time he woke up until the time he went to bed. Same rules as last time. He has to stay in a wet diaper for an hour before he can change it. He made a face and a little while later he said, “Buh, buh, buh, diaper.” He didn’t know there was another option.

I offered an exchange. He could swap the diaper and all of its wetness for frilly panties. He gladly made the swap. A little while later he said, “Buh, buh, buh, frilly panties.” Such a funny guy. I told him they were his own fault. He could be in a wet diaper instead. He’s the one who chose the frilly panties. This morning he asked if I wanted to choose which ones he wears. I didn’t know he had more than one pair. Well, maybe I did, but I forgot. I chose a lovely green pair with little roses sewn to them. When he put them on I noticed the frills running across his butt. Very chic. And I decided that he could wear them when we go out since they will fit nicely under his jeans. Perhaps he’s rethinking the diaper decision. Too late!

When I mentioned the frill across the butt, he said he thought I didn’t like men in silly panties. I told him I don’t really like it, but the face he makes is priceless. He’s clearly uncomfortable, not from an actual “these things ride up” point of view, but from a “why the hell am I wearing frilly, lacy, froo froo panties?” point of view. Why indeed? Is someone making you wear them? Oh wait. You chose to wear them. Now the diaper, someone would have made you wear the diaper. But, no. You chose to trade the diaper for the panties. The frilly, lacy panties.

Ultimately the diapers and the frilly panties were his idea. One of his silly “you know what we could do” ideas that comes back to bite him every now and then. He has a lot of those. He wanted 2.0 to notice when he’s in uniform and wearing the collar. Well, she’s definitely noticing that frilly Lion butt. And that face he makes when I mention it.

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I had to postpone last night’s play session. I was having a problem with the bank and I just wasn’t in the mood to torture Lion. I’m sure he thinks it would have been the perfect way to relieve stress, but I don’t think so. I have to be in a better mood to play. Tonight will be better for me. I don’t think Lion was much in the mood either. He had been awake most of the night Monday night so he was tired.

For a while I’ve been thinking about diapers and pretty Lion toes. Not together necessarily. I’m wondering if Lion sees them as punishment. I’ve never used them that way. He’s only had pretty toes once but I’ve been meaning to give him sparkly purple toes. There’s no real reason to do it other than my wanting to see his feet all dolled up. I know he hates both the diapers and the nail polish.

If I can use spanking as punishment and play, then I am assuming I can use diapers and girly toes the same way. It would just depend on the context. That’s my assumption at least. Lion may feel differently. And I don’t want to send mixed signals. Then again, if you tell a kid they can’t sleep over at Jimmy’s house because we’re all going to Grandma’s birthday party versus being grounded because he hasn’t done his homework in a week, I don’t think that’s mixing any signals. Same result for different reasons.

So Lion will have girly toes and diapers in his future. No frilly panties. They do nothing for either of us. At least the diapers and pretty Lion toes make me smile. Poor boy.

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Lion’s next orgasm is scheduled for January 10. Of course we all know I don’t care how long he has to wait. If I want to make him come I’ll make him come. He likes that arrangement. But last night he did question it.

I was happily teasing him and edged him a few times. Then I decided to stroke him very slowly. It took a while but he was getting very excited. So I kept stroking. Eventually he was bucking into my hand. And I let him come.

His first comment was that it wasn’t the tenth yet. I asked him if he was questioning me. He said he wasn’t and that he was grateful. A little later he asked why I decided to let him come. I said, “Why not?” He said that wasn’t fair. Not fair? Since when does our arrangement have to be fair? Since when do I need a reason to allow him to come? He seemed more satisfied when I told him I wanted to let him come. Exactly what the difference is between “why not? and “because I wanted to”, I have no idea.

When I first started playing with him I was thinking about making him wear his girly panties for me tonight. Now it’s definite. If he isn’t wearing his frilly pink panties when I get home from work then he’ll get some punishment swats. Lots of them. Why not? Because I want to.

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Last night at dinner I mentioned that I had seen Lion’s girly panties when he opened the package but they had mysteriously disappeared after that. I wondered if he had hidden them. He got a devilish look on his face. I told him that was fine. I have ways of making him give them to me. It’s all a matter of some punishment swats or postponing a scheduled orgasm. I think he likes that idea.

Is this willful disobedience? Maybe. Is it a new game? Perhaps. I don’t think he’ll push his luck too far with it. He’s not that silly. It’s all just harmless fun.

We also watched a movie last night. The Sex Tape. A couple tried to reignite their sex lives by making a sex tape that is then shared via various iPads syncing together. It was a silly movie, but we realized that it was somewhat similar to our own story. We didn’t necessarily start male chastity in order to reignite our sex life, but it has. And isn’t this blog sort of like syncing our iPad with our readers? Unlike the couple in the movie, who went to great lengths to get their sex tape back, we are sharing with the hopes that other regular couples will have a different perspective to the fantasy chastity sites on the web. We’re grateful that you’re reading.

A little later on I’ll ask Lion for the panties. If he doesn’t want to hand them over he’ll be in for some punishment. I wonder how much he’s willing to take before he surrenders. We’ll see.