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October turned out to be a 3-orgasm month for me. My latest wait was just 7 days. In her post yesterday, Mrs. Lion gave reasons why she decided to let me come so soon. I’m not sure I buy them. Once she can get me all the way to the edge, it doesn’t seem long before she can’t seem to help herself. I had a very good time and I’m not complaining.

evotion orion ring to hold penis head in place
Evotion Orion ring to hold penis head in place

The new, larger shaft section for my Evotion Orion arrived today. About a month ago I suffered two penis injuries. One was a little sore just under the head. It was most likely caused by the internal ring in the shaft section of the device (see picture). This ring keeps the head in place. It’s a wonderful part of the design. I believe that I ordered too short and a bit too narrow a shaft section in the original device. The other was a lioness bite. She got a little too enthusiastic during oral sex.

I had a similar problem with the Cherry Keeper device which has a shelf inside designed to hold the head in place. The shelf rubbed just under the head a bit too much and I got a sore. The Evotion product has a much more gentle solution. Its molded-in ring offers more surface area than the Cherry Keeper shelf. Since my first custom cage, the Jail Bird, I’ve used a shaft diameter of 1-1/4 inches. This is about 1/4 inch narrower than my early measurement.

It was perfect for the Jail Bird. Apparently, the more closed-in design of the Orion, coupled with the head-retaining ring required a more accurate measurement. I ordered the new shaft piece 2mm more in diameter. This is only 5/64-inches. It should be enough to reduce the rubbing on the tender skin just under the head. I also ordered the length 16mm longer, which is 5/8-inches.

I needed the shorter length in the Jail Bird to assure that even if my penis was cold-shower length (about1-1/4 inch), the head would still be pressed firmly against the front of the cage. That measurement was taken from the tip to the base on the underside where it connects with the scrotum. The Evotion measurement is taken along the top, from the body to the base of the head. My most accurate measurement is 47mm (a little more than 1-3/4 inches).

The new shaft piece looks a lot more substantial. That tiny 2mm increase in diameter looks much larger to me. Of course, it isn’t. The increased length is dramatic. Mrs. Lion promises to lock me into it later today. We’ll get a picture and share it with you.

Since we began male chastity seven years ago, device design and manufacture have evolved considerably. The Mature Metal line of cages, which includes the Jail Bird that I wore for years, was fabricated out of welded stainless steel bars and sheet. They are made by hand and are necessarily simple designs.

With the growing maturity of 3D printing, a new kind of male chastity device has emerged. These devices are designed on a computer and then printed in nylon or other materials into finished chastity devices. Complex shapes are very easy to accomplish. Custom sizing is precise and can accomodate virtually any number of individually-measured dimensions. The Evotion Orion is the current champ in terms of customization.

It isn’t easy to figure out how to make a device that will effectively stop a penis from erection and ejaculaton while still being comfortable to wear 24/7. Very few makers have. The relatively crude Jail Bird is comfortable and effective. The Orion is the next generation. It is so light weight that I completely forget it is locked on me. It’s comfortable and best of all, I can pee in it standing up without any fear of spraying.

The price is average for custom male chastity devices; at this time between $350 and $400. Reprints with size adjsutments are reasonably priced. If you wear the device full time, plan to make one or two changes as you spend time in the it.

This is the first time I’ve had to increase the size of a device. I’ll let you know how it works.

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I never learn. I can’t help myself from saying (typing) what I’m thinking. Most recently, I wrote that Mrs. Lion couldn’t help herself from making me ejaculate within a day or so of being able to super edge me. She’s learned that, contrary to my earlier thinking, she can do this right from the day after I ejaculate. We both used to think it took several days, often a week or more, for me to be able to reach that point. It turns out that with sufficient stimulation, I’m ready to go the day after ejaculation.

In a post, I mentioned that it might be interesting to edge me for many days, not just go for ejaculation a day or two after super edging. Apparently Mrs. Lion took this thought to heart. Yesterday was day 6 since I came. She has pushed me to the edge over and over every day beginning with day 2. There is no sign she plans to give me release any time soon.

Mrs. Lion doesn’t like making me ejaculate just because she loves me. For some inexplicable reason, she loves the taste of semen. Apparently this is a flavor she has always liked. I don’t understand it though I am very happy that she does. For one thing, when she gives me a handjob she very rarely makes me eat it. I don’t share her appreciation for semen. She knows it is good for me to be made to consume my own product, but her appreciation for the taste drives her to keep it for herself. Occasionally, in a selfless gesture of domination, she will feed it to me. Happily, that is a fairly rare occurrence.

Anyway, it turns out that the longer she sucks me, the more precum I produce. For her, this is a rare treat; a sort of sexual truffle she unearths in the process of teasing me. She loves this bonus. Now that she can reliably make me produce it, the incentive to make me ejaculate isn’t as strong. A daily diet of precum partially slakes her thirst for semen.

I understand that semen can taste different from one man to another, even between individual ejaculations by the same man. Since the only semen I’ve consumed is my own, I have to go on what others have said. For the record, mine has never tasted good to me. Since Mrs. Lion has considerably more experience with this particular treat, I wonder if she enjoyed her ex’s load as much as mine. I believe he is the only other man she has sampled. I also wonder if mine tastes different from load to load. For the record, semen is a low-calorie, high-protein drink. It’s only hazardous if consumed by the vagina. When ejaculated there, it can produce children. It is harmless when taken orally. It can stain clothes; ask Monica Lewinsky.

my first sex was exclusively oral

I had my first sexual experience when I was 18 and a freshman in college. I met a girl who liked me and was equally inexperienced. Our first attempt was a clumsy romp in my twin bed at home. It felt great! She said she had fun too. A few months later, I moved out and had my own studio apartment. We took our time. I discovered that I couldn’t penetrate her. Her hymen was intact and very thick. I just couldn’t get in and didn’t want to push too hard for fear of hurting her.

To this day I wonder what we did in that first attempt. I suspect I was between her labia with my penis pointing down. The friction stimulated her clitoris and my penis. I guess I ejaculated externally. At the time, she hurriedly put her panties back on and got dressed. Any mess I made was sopped up by them.

After the first session when we discovered I couldn’t penetrate her, we decided to do some research. We bought a couple of sexual how-to’s (the World Wide Web was in its infancy). We decided to try oral sex as a workaround. As I recall, anal sex never got discussed. When we had sex, I would lick her and she would suck me. Apparently she didn’t share Mrs. Lion’s appreciation of semen. After I came she would go into the bathroom and spit out the result of her hard work. It’s ironic that my first sex was exclusively oral. As I recall, she never jerked me off. We always used our mouths. It never occurred to us to do anything else.

Now, all these years later, the only sex we have is oral. At this time I am the lucky recipient. Of course, I stand ready to reciprocate any time Mrs. Lion wishes. For many years, almost all my sex was handjobs. Since last summer, Mrs. Lion found using her mouth is easier for her and a lot more fun for me. Sex has come full circle. Yum!

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I am glad Lion likes super edging. I like it when he’s super horny so I guess it all works out well. The only problem is that, once he’s near the edge, it’s easy to go too far. As he said, neither of us likes ruined orgasms. Obviously, they aren’t as much fun for him as a full orgasm. There is a solution, of sorts. I can salvage the orgasm. That makes it a little more fun for Lion, but still leaves me feeling like I screwed up.

The chance of a ruined orgasm could stop me from getting him too close to the edge. It’s a fine line. I need to push my luck just enough that he thinks he might just go over without actually letting him go over. It would be helpful if he had a gauge attached somewhere that showed how close he was. I thought he had a ruined one last night. I tasted some precum, kept going and then he was panting and tensing up. He never got soft so I decided to edge him again. I’m happy to report that it wasn’t a ruined orgasm and I left Lion more frustrated than ever.

He had reported being a little horny before I edged him. I haven’t gotten the Lion weather report in a long time. He does mention how horny he is from time to time, but he used to tell me the weather was steamy or tropical. Given the fact that he thought he was only a little horny last night, I don’t know if I can trust his self-reporting. I do trust his panting and gasping for air when I’m through with him. I also note how long it takes for him to recover enough to get back on his side of the bed to watch TV. I guess it’s a gauge of how well I’ve done.

I’m not sure if he’ll get his orgasm this weekend or not. I may have to play with my food a bit longer to make sure he’s really ready for it. I doubt he’ll ever beg for an orgasm. He doesn’t want to be able to tell me when to give him one. I understand that, but sometimes I think it would be nice to know when he’s at this limit and really wants one. It doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll give him one, but it would be nice to know.

[Lion comments — I could start my weather reports again. I’m not sure I’ve been at the point where I just have to come. I suppose the time for me to beg for release is just after I have been edged and before Mrs. Lion begins again. She could ask me if I want to come. My problem is that in the past when she asked me if I answered that I did, she gave me an orgasm. The fun ended. I think that if she wants me to truly reach a limit, she will have to not let me come even if I say I want to. If this happens over and over, eventually she will see if I change in my response. As long as she gets me off if I say yes, I am not going to say it.]

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We didn’t play Spankardy last night. Lion had been snoozing during Wheel of Fortune and I told him I could give him a play spanking any time he liked. We didn’t even wind up doing a spanking. It wasn’t necessary. After I’d gotten him a little excited I moved down to lick him and then asked if he wanted some real oral action. That’s always a silly question.

I wasn’t sure if he’d get to the edge or not, but I figured it was worth a try. I’ve missed sucking him. He’s missed it too. He was hard almost immediately. I got him pretty close if not to the edge. I could feel the sore spot as I sucked him. I guess it’s a scar now. Lion says it doesn’t hurt which is good. I would have sucked him longer but my sinuses felt like they were trying to drown me. As it was, I thought it was a very good first try in a long time. And now we know he will get excited even if he doesn’t think he’s in the mood.

Tonight, I’ll make sure I can suck him longer. Maybe we’ll even give a play spanking a go. Barring that, maybe I’ll bring out the rope or clothespins. I have many toys at my disposal to help get him super excited. It sounds like we can get back on track again. Lion will be frustrated in no time. Then it’s just a matter of keeping him frustrated until I decide it’s time for his orgasm. Now the question is whether I should start the clock from last night or back when he had his orgasm. This is absolutely an instance when he didn’t care about waiting for the first week or so. Since he hasn’t suffered yet, does it really count?

I guess I can answer right away. It absolutely doesn’t matter how long he’s been frustrated or even how long he’s been waiting. I just have to make sure he waits long enough and I get to determine that. If I say he’s waited long enough, I can give him an orgasm tonight. Spoiler alert: he hasn’t waited long enough. I will say that, when I decided he should have a short wait thrown in, I hadn’t foreseen his not caring about any sexual contact at all. With that monkey wrench thrown in, I don’t see how it could possibly be a short wait. It will take time to build him up to the level of frustration I require. Nope. He’s in for the long haul again. It may not be 20 days, but it won’t be 4 either. [Lion comments — Today is day 9, FYI in case you wanted to know.]