old faithful
Last night I finished what I started and Lion erupted with a full orgasm.

Last night I decided to continue my lion torture. I was pretty sure I was going to make him come. A while ago he was hard the entire time I spanked him so I figured it would be an excellent way to get things started. After giving him red cheeks, complete with my handprint, he was not hard.

I was beginning to think that he was right. Maybe he needed another day or so to recharge. But no. A little bit of encouragement and he was very excited. I successfully edged him a few times. I think it may have been more times than I ever edged him at one time. Then I moved in for the kill.

I wanted the rest of my dessert from the night before. But I wanted to drive him a little more crazy before I took it. At the last minute I debated if I should keep teasing him and tell him he couldn’t come till I either tickled or grabbed his balls. When his hips started bucking I knew he was too close to get that fancy so I finished him off. I got my dessert and he got his orgasm meter reset to zero.

He never used to buck his hips into me. I like it. I first noticed it when I was riding him a few weeks ago. Usually he just lays there and pants a lot. It’s nice to have him more involved. Not that he doesn’t have other things on his mind at the time.

Now I need to decide how long to make him wait this time. Last night I was a pro getting the Chinese cage back on him so struggling with it won’t be an issue. We think his Jail Bird will be back this week so it will be even easier to put him back in after exercise. We aren’t scheduled to go away for another two weeks so…. Would that be cruel? Maybe. I could set that as my goal and go from there. Two weeks with time off for good behavior and extra time for bad behavior? Perhaps.

broken egg
Last night I wanted to give Lion a mind-blowing orgasm, but my teasing went a bit too far and he got a ruined orgasm instead.

Lion told me about the video he shared in his post. I watched it and decided to try talking to him more while I played with him. I hadn’t decided if I would allow him to come yet, and that was part of what I was telling him as I stroked him. But at a certain point we got our signals crossed and I told him if he didn’t like my talking to him, I could think of a better use for my mouth. He never argues with that logic.

I had pretty much made up my mind that I was going to give him an orgasm, but it wanted to play with him first. I teased the tip. I did long slow thrusts. I did quicker thrusts. All with little breaks in between. None of these would make him come. Or so I thought. I was just about to tell him he could come and I’d be snacking on his semen when it happened. Another ruined orgasm. Crap!

I hadn’t meant to frustrate him. After eight days I really wanted him to have a mind-blowing orgasm. I don’t know why he puts up with my attempts to tease and deny him. Last night I told him he gets in my head when he tells me how well I do it. He builds up my confidence so I think I know what I’m doing. Well, knock it off! Obviously I have more work to do.

Now I have to hope Lion will be ready for his slightly-less-than-mind-blowing orgasm tonight. Even if it does feel good, it won’t be as good as an orgasm after an eight day wait. But I’m sure he will love it anyway.

spoon in semen
So lion wants rules. One request I will certainly honor is his wish (LOL) to eat semen.

None of these seem like rules requiring punishment. Perhaps my title should be Mrs Lion’s Wish List.

  •  So Lion wants to eat semen. Well, wants is a strong word. But he has eaten it in the past. A few months ago I asked him if he was willing to trade having an orgasm for eating his semen. He agreed. So he has done it before. He is correct. I am fairly selfish with it. But if he wants to do it more often, I think I can accommodate him. However, blow jobs are mine. Anything else is negotiable.
  • Lion doesn’t want to make decisions about where/what we eat for dinner. I’ve been trying to do it more often. I reserve the right to ask him to make certain meals at certain times. He is, of course, welcome to make suggestions. I will then act on them or not as I see fit. However, if I am in charge then my decision should be final. We have a standing agreement (I thought) that whenever one of us is having stomach issues we eat a certain meal that is least likely to make us feel worse. Somehow, this procedure works when he isn’t feeling well, but not so much when I’m not feeling well. I am less likely to argue with him when my stomach is attacking so I wind up eating something that either doesn’t help or actually aggravates the situation. No more. I need to be more forceful with my decisions.
  • Lion is in charge of the finances. There are a few reasons for that. When I first moved in I didn’t have a job. It seemed ridiculous for me to be in charge of his money. But the major reason is that I am horrible with finances. If he wants to keep a roof over our heads he should be in charge of the money. Over the years we’ve tended to keep our money separated. I give him a portion of my paycheck and he makes most of the purchases for the household. I pay a few bills with my remaining money. In little doses, I can manage money because I know a tiny amount has to last me a long time. However, there are problems with this arrangement. It drives Lion crazy that I will not tell him when I have no money left. I also never ask for things. The flip side of this is that Lion will buy things because he wants them. Why is that a problem? Throughout the year I try to come up with ideas for his birthday, our anniversary, etc. and I am usually out of ideas because he’s bought everything he wants. Maybe we need a pool for discretionary spending. Maybe if I knew there was a slush fund I might be more likely to ask for things. Maybe not. But it might keep him from buying his future birthday present before I can.
  • There were times when I kept Lion chained to the bed. He had enough lead to get to the bathroom, but not anywhere else in the house. Obviously I can only do that when I’m nearby, but he likes being restrained and it takes little to no work on my part. I’ve been toying with the idea of doing that again. Once we are settled in for the night watching tv he usually doesn’t venture further than the bathroom anyway, but knowing he can’t even if he wants to gives me the power.

Numbers one and four will almost definitely go into effect. Number two is really just a modification of an existing rule. Number three requires negotiations.

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Lion gets his stress relief by grumbling and being spanked and pegged. I get mine by playing mindless video games

A long time ago when I got stressed I’d say I needed to punch a tree. My rationale was that hitting a person would land me in a whole heap of trouble and punching a tree was less likely to get me arrested. I also found stress relief in batting cages. When every ball has your ex’s face on it, it’s fairly easy to knock them out of the park! Lion always tells me that spanking is a good way to get out frustrations. I don’t agree. If I punch a tree I get hurt. If I hit a baseball only the ball gets hurt. If I swat him, he gets hurt. Taking out my frustrations on him wouldn’t work because I’d be too worried about hurting him. That would actually add to my stress.

He says grumbling relieves his stress. Being spanked and pegged are also stress relievers for him. So what does it for me? I thought about it on the way home from work. It’s exactly the thing I was doing when he told me I wasn’t paying any attention to him. I like to play mindless computer games. Candy Crush, Angry Birds, etc. Yes, they are frustrating. Why can’t you just die you stupid pig and let me advance to the next level? But they also let my mind decompress. If the pig doesn’t die, I’ll get him the next time. No big deal. Now, I’ll admit to being addicted to these games, so I can understand if Lion doesn’t know the difference between my just-vegetating play and my I-really-need-this-so-I-don’t-kill-someone play.

I tend to grumble a bit too when I’m stressed. It doesn’t make me feel any better so I don’t know why I bother, but that dryer needs to know I’m really pissed off that it keeps beeping at me. I heard you the first three times! I think it may be another passive-aggressive way to let Lion know I’m in over my head without actually saying it. We’re working on our communication skills. I’ll add that one to my list.

The point is that one person’s stress relief is different from another person’s. His grumbling may make me feel guilty, but it’s not what he’s intending. My computer games may make Lion feel ignored, but it’s not what I’m intending. Now we know.