Lion’s balls turn red when I coat them with IcyHot.

I doubt Lion is interested in sex so soon after an orgasm, but snuggling won’t necessarily lead to anything. It depends on how we feel and how horny Lion is. There was a comment on my “12 Orgasms of Christmas” post yesterday saying sex isn’t a sport. My first thought was that it might not be a sport, but it can certainly be a game.

This morning, Lion was watching television, and someone said something about roasted balls or balls of fire. Something like that. He said sometimes he has balls of fire. I’ve never felt IcyHot on a sensitive area of my body. When I’ve used it, there’s a cooling feeling, and then it warms up. Apparently, on balls, there is no cooling feeling. Or maybe it’s just no feeling and then heat.

I don’t remember Lion ever saying it felt cool. I think there’s the initial knowledge that it’s gone on, and now we wait for the fire to start. It’s painful for about 10-15 minutes, and then it starts to subside. Once, Lion made the silly comment that some menthol rub I got wasn’t hot enough. I decided that meant he needed more, so I slathered it all over his balls. Yikes! Talk about balls of fire. I don’t think he’ll ever say menthol isn’t hot enough again. He certainly learned his lesson.

Sometimes I’m accused of being too vicious. It’s usually in relation to spanking Lion. When I bruise him or leave him bloody, people think I’ve gone too far. I’m mean. I’m evil. I don’t think I’ve ever gone too far. Lion has never used his safe word. Usually, I’m too forgiving. This is especially true in the case of menthol rub. At least spanking has a lead-up to the harsher stuff. Menthol is either on or off. When it’s on, it happens quickly, and Lion tends to writhe in pain. He’s told me it’s too much, and I’ve let him wash it off. The problem is that it doesn’t just wash off. I don’t know if there’s a particular remedy. We’ve talked about trying milk as though he’s eaten a chili pepper and needs relief. However, he’s never actually used his safe word then, either. I’m just too nice.

All this talk about balls of fire makes me wonder if he wants them. I know he never really wants them, just like he never really wants a punishment spanking. He likes the idea of IcyHot and punishment spankings. I’m in charge, and I’m making him do these things. I guess I am mean and evil.

Lion has been busy rewriting his first novel. He also hasn’t been feeling very well. He was pretty tired yesterday. Last night I brought the can of spray-on IcyHot over to the bed. As the dog was being an idiot, jumping on the bed, Lion picked it up and asked what it was. When he read the label, he said that was a horrible thing to do to the poor dog. Later on, he said he wasn’t up for sex or playing. I teased him that he didn’t want to play because he saw the IcyHot.

As always, I’m being flexible with what we do and when we do or don’t do it. If he had asked to play with something other than the IcyHot, I would have obliged. I rarely have my heart set on doing something specific to him. If he has a preference, why not? Of course, if it’s something I don’t particularly want to do, I should get the same consideration.

I assume Lion will be good to go tonight. If not, of course, we will wait. Will I pull out the IcyHot again? I don’t know. He may be waiting for it. Maybe he just needed a night to get his head wrapped around that much pain in such a sensitive area. I doubt it. I think he was tired and/or not feeling well. I’ll try to give him attention earlier this weekend. An afternoon with IcyHot will wake him up, for sure.

Lion was all excited to be blindfolded. I’m sure he was a little nervous too. What would I do to him? Would he like it? Would he hate it? Yes, to both. Since the blue menthol rub didn’t go over so well the other night, I figured it needed another try. The lion didn’t agree.

This time I didn’t put as much on. Almost immediately, he said he couldn’t stand it. Coward! But I knew he could make it. It was a little more than a stripe but certainly not as much as I’d used before. He could do this. He insisted it was too much. Nope. Sorry. It’s not. Besides, Mr. Weenie was happy to play along. Of course, I think he was happy to play along when it really was too much. I kept rubbing my weenie and telling him he could get through it. When we hit the minute mark, I knew he’d be okay. Sometimes you just have to get back up on that horse.

He was minty fresh smelling when I sucked him. I thought I was getting him close at one point, but I wasn’t. Within a few minutes, he was close. And again. And again. And then I left him hanging. Poor thing. He wanted more. I don’t think he wanted an orgasm. Well, he probably did at that moment but if he’d gotten one he wouldn’t have been very happy. It’s too close to the last one.

I’ve noticed a strange thing happening. Somehow our angle has changed. When I suck him for any length of time, it seems like he’s pulling up toward his head. I think I’m in the same position. I don’t think his position has changed. He’s not really bucking. But my teeth seem to be more prone to making contact. I know some men might like to be bitten, but Lion doesn’t. I don’t think it’s conducive to his reaching the edge or having an orgasm. It’s almost like I’m slipping down his body. Clearly I’m not. I don’t know if Lion has noticed a difference but it’s becoming a little uncomfortable for me as I try not to scrape my teeth across him. I mentioned it to him last night but I noticed it the other night too. I’ll have to figure out what’s going on.

The good thing is that the menthol rub is gone for the time being. I guess we’ll be doing anal things for a few nights. And then it will be time to return all the cards to the Box O’Fun. All the tortures will be in play again. [Lion — Oh boy.]

Lion's box of penalties
Lion’s Box O’Fun.

One of Lion’s favorite things was mixed with one of his least favorites last night. He picked the blindfold card from the Box O’Fun, which requires another choice to go with it. His second choice was Icy Hot.

Oooooh! Too bad.

The thing we discovered last time he chose the blindfold was that he shouldn’t know what the second card is. Duh! It basically nullifies the blindfold. The problem with Icy Hot is that it stinks. I figured he’d know the second I took the cap off. I overlooked the fact that I don’t apply anything else to his balls or perineum so he knew from feeling it long before the smell or burning took place. Oh well. Maybe next time the blindfold is chosen it won’t be so obvious right away. [Lion — It wasn’t obvious immediately. When I felt the cold on my perineum, I guessed what was coming.]

I didn’t put as much on as I did last time because I knew I wanted to give him oral again and I didn’t want Icy Hot all over his balls and then all over my face. I also set a five-minute timer. He’d have to deal with the burning until the timer went off. No running to wash it off right away. I don’t think he had any trouble with it. It burned but nothing he couldn’t stand. [Lion — It wasn’t too bad this time.]

Despite Lion’s objections, my weenie was happy about the Icy Hot. I went to wash my hands, came back and he was standing at attention. I guess Lion was a horny boy. And that trend continued into his blow job. I edged him three times. Three times I got him very, very, very close to the edge. Very close. If I had gone one more stroke I think it would have been too much. He’ll be that much hornier tonight.

As usual, I have no idea how long it’s been since his last orgasm. All I know is that last night wasn’t time. And tonight might not be it either. Always keep him guessing. [Lion — Last night it was 5 days.]