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velcro strips on bed
These are the Velcro strips I left on the bed last night. Lion knows what comes next.

Last night I brought out the Box O’Fun. Lion picked a card. Actually he picked two cards but I took the one I could see and returned the other one. The card proudly announced “Velcro” as the selection. He wasn’t happy with that. He doesn’t like the tiny teeth biting into my weenie.

When I put the Box O’Fun back I took out the Velcro and left it on the bed between us. It was mocking Lion while we watched some TV. Eventually I moved over to snuggle with him. As I was playing with my weenie, I heard Lion snoring softly. So much for our excitement. He was asleep for maybe 15-20 minutes but the mood was gone.

After we gave the dog her ice cream Lion said he had an idea about the Box O’Fun. Uh oh. He suggested I have him choose the night before for the next day’s activity. That way we can both anticipate what’s to come. What luck! He’d already chosen Velcro for today’s fun since he’d slept through last night’s attempt. He said he didn’t realize he’d fallen asleep earlier. We both need to figure this sleep issue out.

Tonight I’ll make sure he stays awake for play time. He says I should have used the Velcro on him to wake him up. Nope. That’s not the way it works. He needs to be awake to enjoy the torture. I like to watch his face. That’s one reason I don’t really like the blindfold. He can’t see what’s coming and I can’t watch his reactions to things.

I suppose a purist would say I should have punished Lion for falling asleep while I was trying to arouse him. Since I’ve been having trouble sleeping myself, I know how annoying it is to be so tired you just can’t keep your eyes open. I’ve been trying to fight the urge to nap. Lion has too. Sometimes you just can’t fight it. It wouldn’t be fair to punish him for losing that battle.

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Apparently I need to be more closely supervised. I can’t be trusted with chemicals. Anything stronger than lube is no good in my hands. I assumed all Icy Hot was created equal. Why wouldn’t it be? Gel, roll on, whatever other forms it takes. And Lion bought it all so ultimately it’s his fault his balls were on fire last night. It isn’t. This falls under the live and learn category. Read the label. A little dab’ll do ya. More is not necessarily better.

I feel bad about last night. It’s one thing to cause Lion pain because he wants it. It’s an entirely different thing to put him in real pain. Of course I let him wash it off. If I knew a trick to counteract the stuff we’d get some. Milk is supposed to work with hot peppers. I’ve heard tequila does too but I think tequila just puts you in a place where you don’t care that your mouth is on fire. I doubt either would have any effect on Icy Hot to the balls.

I guess there is some good news. Lion was still hard and willing to be edged after he got most of the offending goop off. Since I couldn’t play with his balls as I normally do when I’m edging him, I traced a line near his anus. He likes that. I wasn’t actually touching it but I was in the neighborhood and even a drive by is welcome there. I stopped edging him and I pulled my finger away when I thought he was close. He gave me a look as if to say, “What happened? Why’d you stop?”

I wasn’t going to give him an orgasm. I just wanted him close. When I resumed I kept my finger flirting with him even though I stopped edging him. This boy is craving some anal attention. I’ll have to give him more tonight.

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Yesterday after I wrote my post I mowed the lawn. An hour of back and forth, up and down, punctuated by a few stops while I decided whether I should stop or if I could actually finish. What drove me on, and it sounds stupid, is the idea that I didn’t want to get another set of clothes sweaty and dirty if I had to finish it today. I was definitely tired and achy but after a short rest I was just a little achy. By bed time I was ready and assumed I’d sleep well. Nope. This morning I have a muscle tweak near my shoulder blade but it’s nowhere near as painful as my neck was.

I did have energy to snuggle with Lion and attempt to wake the sleeping weenie. I didn’t get anywhere. Lion didn’t apologize. He didn’t mention not being horny. We just snuggled. When I had to move I didn’t go far and we spent a good portion of the night intertwined while watching TV.

Today, we already wasted time watching a college football game. Lion is getting the new waxing station ready while I write this. I can’t keep track of his fur. I’m not sure if he needs to be waxed this week or next week. He says he’s furry enough but it doesn’t look that way to me.

We also have to get ready for Lion’s friend who’s coming in a little less than two weeks. There really isn’t too much to do. It’s mostly moving extraneous stuff out of the spare bedroom. We’ve managed to keep the house fairly clean from all our visitors throughout the year.

Later on I’ll either bring out the Magic Wand or the Icy Hot to get things moving. I threaten him with Icy Hot a lot. I guess it’s time I follow through.

 

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The other day when I wrote about the effective way to spank me, I made reference to ball swatting. Julie, who is the undisputed queen of all things spanking, noted that she needs to add her husband’s balls to her repertoire of spanking activities. Mrs. Lion swats my balls frequently. She says she does it because I asked her to do it. In the distant past I did. It occurs to me that it may be worth a post to talk about male genital spanking.

We guys aren’t going to be particularly helpful about ways to spank our cocks and balls. The most diehard male pain slut, who doesn’t break a sweat after an hour of caning, will squick out in the face of genital spanking. I think of spanking, my butt that as erotic, at least at first. I greet the prospect of genital spanking with fear. That’s not to say I don’t get hard when Mrs. Lion prepares to swat me there. I do. I just don’t spend too much time looking forward to it.

Oddly, many women love male genital spanking. I’m not going to go all Freudian on it. You draw your own conclusions. Anyway, there is a need for understanding the proper technique in cock and ball beating. Unlike the butt, the genitals are easy to injure and turn a fun session into a medical problem.

Penis spanking
The penis is filled with spongy tissue that fills with blood to create an erection. This tissue is delicate, particularly when the penis is hard. Just as it is dangerous to bend or fold a hard cock, swatting the shaft can produce permanent injury Fortunately, for the spanker, the head of the penis has a different structure and is very safe to swat. It is also more sensitive than the shaft. Soft or hard, it is safe to spank the head. Support the shaft with one hand while spanking the head.

The best toys for this purpose are lightweight, smaller objects. A  paint stirrer (free at warehouse stores) is great for cock heads and balls. You can sometimes find very small floggers that are perfect for male genitals. Mrs. Lion likes to snap a fingernail against the head of my penis. That really stings! A little sandpaper on the cock head is an easy way to make it more sensitive.

If you stick to the head of the penis, you can safely cause a lot of extreme discomfort. Some tops find it amusing to get the head nice and sore and then have their boys fuck them. Sex is both exciting and excruciating. It’s really making a male’s instincts work against him.

Balls
Balls are both rugged and delicate. The testes themselves are not safe to beat. A blow to them will often make the male fall down and throw up. However, the scrotum is a safe and effective spanking target. Your trusty paint stirrer is perfect for ball spanking. You can be the scrotum bright red without any risk of hurting it’s precious contents. A light flogger, even a riding crop are also effective on the scrotum. When Mrs. Lion uses one of these on me, it burns like fire.!

The biggest advantage in genital spanking is the mental effect it has on the man. We are frightened of anything beating our cock and balls. Very little effort will yield big results. If you pull the cock and balls back between the thighs and then use a belt to bind the thighs tightly together so they can’t escape,  you have ass and genitals available for spanking. I can tell you that a standard, butt swatting takes on new terror when my cock and balls are also in range of the paddle. Also, you can alternate between butt swatting and cock and ball spanking without turning him over. How convenient for you!