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lion's sling
This is our sling. It shares the dungeon with our waxing table (left) and our library. Note how high my legs are held by the restraints.
(Click image for a NSFW close up of me being pegged in the sling)

I realize that I miss insertion play. I don’t particularly like things up my ass, but I get aroused when I think of Mrs. Lion training me to accept larger dildos for eventual pegging. I actually get hard when I think about it. However, when she gets the lube out and tells me to roll over, there is no sense of anticipation.

For her part, she is usually clinical about how she goes about filling my ass. Occasionally, she will lube up a finger or two and manually explore my rear cavity. Usually, she uses her finger to lube my anus and then greases up the plug or dildo and slowly inserts it. She is always sensitive to my reactions and will stop or pull back a bit while I get used to the current stretch. She persists until I am fully penetrated.

lion's dildo
This is where we left off when Mrs. Lion was working me up for pegging. The idea was that she could put this into our Rodeoh harness and she could go for it.
(Click image for a NSFW photo of it filling me)

Her favorite place for pegging is our sling. When I’m strapped in, I am fully exposed with my legs up and spread. My body is tipped so that the area between my legs is easily accessible. With my legs wide apart, my anus is fully available. I’m at a comfortable height for anal attention. This is a also her favorite place to work on my cock and balls.

Since our sling is in the basement dungeon, it requires effort to turn on the heat and then go down for activities. This effort is usually too much for her on a weeknight. Weekends are busy so we very rarely use our sling. It’s been several months since the last time I was in it.

That’s too bad. As you can see in this NSFW image (click here and here to view), my position in the sling makes me absolutely vulnerable to anything Mrs. Lion wants to do. My arms and legs are cuffed to the chains holding up the sling. When she pegs me, the sling rocks back and forth, essentially moving the dildo in and out using my own weight to drive it in and out.

The fact that I get turned on by thinking of this activity, yet when it is happening I feel uncomfortable and become soft is yet another contradiction in the way I process BDSM. This contradiction is probably why being anally stretched on a regular basis keeps me sexually aroused other times.

It sends a powerful message of control to me. Being strapped into the sling is very hot for exactly the same reason. Control is being taken from me. I get very turned on by that. Come to think of it, being locked into a chastity device is the same thing. It’s how I’m wired.

 

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In: Anal play, Mrs Lion Comments, Vibrator

Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever get enough sleep. When our guest was here, I chalked up my horrible sleep to the fact that I was wearing clothes to bed because the dog needed to be let out and I didn’t want to waste time looking for clothes or, worse, forget that I couldn’t go wandering around with no clothes. Last night I even took a sleeping pill to help. It might have helped but I’m still tired today.

I am determined to play with Lion tonight. I’m thinking something along the lines of a nice butt plug and perhaps a visit from the Magic Wand. That should get him interested. I think I’ve tried using the vibrator on the butt plug. Lion didn’t like it very much. We also have a prostate vibrator. He doesn’t like that either. I guess he’s only a fan when it’s used on my weenie.

Over the weekend the vacuum kept getting caught on the straps for tying Lion to the bed. He said we should remove the straps. It only gets caught on one strap and I tucked that under the mattress. We removed the straps when the dog started chewing on them. I put them back so we could actually use them. If they’re in the spare bedroom, first I’d have to find them and then hook them under the bed. They’d be out of sight, out of mind. If the vacuum keeps getting stuck on them then it will be forefront in my mind and I’ll be more likely to use them. At least, that’s my theory.

The biggest thing right now is just getting back to normal. Last night was step one. We’re back to work and that’s a good start.

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In: Anal play, Edging, Mrs Lion Comments

Lion was given ample opportunity to come last night. I edged him over and over again orally. And then I kept going. And going. And going. Apparently I broke him.

I don’t consider this a problem. He’ll be ready next time. I’m not sure I’ll be in the mood to give him an orgasm then but he’ll get one eventually. In the meantime I get to play with him. And he gets frustrated. Win win. And don’t believe he doesn’t like being frustrated. I think that’s part of what gets him excited.

Lion is getting home from work later than usual tonight. He has a work function. He’ll need a shower and he’ll probably be a little tired. I’m not sure if he’ll be in the mood for love. I’m assuming we’ll just snuggle and watch TV. Tomorrow morning is an early morning for him. A continuation of the work function. Depending on how much sleep we get, tomorrow might not be a very productive night as far as edging/playing is concerned. We’ll just have to wait and see.

Whenever we play again, we can give the butt plug another spin. I’ll make sure I use more lube and maybe he can hold it longer. He never asked to have it removed the other night. I just didn’t want him to have it in for too long because it’s been a while since we’ve done any anal play. Better safe than sorry.

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Lion took the butt plug with only a little discomfort. I’m not positive I gave him enough lube, but he kept it in for a little over a half hour. I didn’t want to leave it in too long because it’s been months since he’s had anything up his ass. Generally I leave it in for about an hour or maybe a little more. Any longer than that and I guess the lube dissolves and it makes holding it, much less comfortable and removing it, difficult.

Long after I was done edging him, Lion reminded me how horny he was. He thinks once I get his motor running when he’s not really feeling horny, he stays horny for the duration. I don’t know how many days he’s gone since his last orgasm, but I’m sure he can make it longer. How long? No idea. But longer than last night.

I’m not sure if I should give him another round with the butt plug tonight or not. If I do he’ll most likely assume I’m training him for bigger and better things. I’m not going to commit to that. I just want to give him some anal attention because I know he likes it and he hasn’t had it for quite a while. Not everything has to have an ulterior motive.