We ran some errands last night and went out to dinner. By the time I had my shower and activated my new cell phone it was already pretty late. Lion whined that he wanted to be unlocked. I suppose I should have just glared at him but I was nice. I unlocked him.

Of course, “nice” is a relative term. If I was truly nice I would have given him his play spanking no matter how late it was. If I was truly nice I would have gone all the way to an orgasm rather than leaving him gasping for air with no relief. But I wasn’t truly nice.

I didn’t lock him up right away. I guess I should have. He did need time to calm down. Trying to shove an erect penis into a cage never goes well. When he’s really horny it gets more difficult because he may start out calm but all the maneuvering to get him in the cage excites him all over again. Then we have to wait and try again.

It seems we’ve perfected putting on the plastic cage. With a few fingers inserted between the skin and the cage, we have eliminated pinches. Lion is very thankful for that. Me too. I hate hurting him. Except when I want to, that is.

We ran some errands last night and went out to dinner. By the time I had my shower and activated my new cell phone it was already pretty late. Lion whined that he wanted to be unlocked. I suppose I should have just glared at him but I was nice. I unlocked him.

Of course, “nice” is a relative term. If I was truly nice I would have given him his play spanking no matter how late it was. If I was truly nice I would have gone all the way to an orgasm rather than leaving him gasping for air with no relief. But I wasn’t truly nice.

I didn’t lock him up right away. I guess I should have. He did need time to calm down. Trying to shove an erect penis into a cage never goes well. When he’s really horny it gets more difficult because he may start out calm but all the maneuvering to get him in the cage excites him all over again. Then we have to wait and try again.

It seems we’ve perfected putting on the plastic cage. With a few fingers inserted between the skin and the cage, we have eliminated pinches. Lion is very thankful for that. Me too. I hate hurting him. Except when I want to, that is.

Lion took boner pills last night so he’d be ready for play. However, for whatever reason (and I don’t really have one), I didn’t play with him. Sometimes the boner pills last a while so maybe we’ve got a shot at it tonight.

He asks if I like having the cage back on him. I can’t say I like it, but I don’t hate it. I guess we’ll just have to go with that for now. I don’t think that’s a reason for not playing with him last night. It really wouldn’t have been a big deal to get the key and unlock him. Maybe it was the effort of changing the bed that threw me off.

Lion says his sore butt is better. That means I can swat his sexy buns to my heart’s content. Yum! I love his tush. We haven’t done a play spanking in a very long time. I almost need to relearn how to do it. The key, I believe, is that I’ll be starting out with my hand. That will probably stop me from swatting too hard to begin with.

The main thing I guess I’m worried about is making sure I keep up with playing with Lion now that he’s caged again. Being able to just scoot over in bed to play with him was nice. It doesn’t take that much effort to go get the key out of the lock box. I just need to get back in the swing of things.

Last night I surprised Lion by unlocking him. Based on my post, he didn’t think he’d be unlocked or played with right away. I told him I guess I came to terms with his being locked up again. In his defense, he thought I approved of both his sending the cage back and locking him up because I answered “OK” in an email. That “OK” was in response to us talking about things when I got home. So it was miscommunication. Live and learn and move on.

What I didn’t tell Lion is now that he’s back in the cage he’s going to wait longer for orgasms. I don’t know why I decided that. In my mind, maybe it’s a trade-off for making me unlock him and lock him back up. It’s not vindictive. I’m sure he’ll “like” being made to wait a little longer. I haven’t really thought about how much longer he’ll wait. But you know me, I’ll give in before too long. It certainly will not be 28 days.

When I unlocked him last night it took a while for him to respond. Once he did, it didn’t last long. Then, of course, he decided he’s broken because he wasn’t horny. Why would he be? He didn’t think he was being unlocked. He was just laying there minding his own business.

If I unlock him tonight maybe I’ll give him a little more warning. I could also use some handy dandy toys to help the situation. I know I can get him interested.