Trying Things a New Way

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It shouldn’t come as any surprise that I took Lion’s advice about spanking. Since I can’t seem to get my act together with the subjective rules, I’ll spank him every punishment day. He will have rosy cheeks Mondays, Thursdays, and Saturdays. While I was swatting him last night, the thought occurred to me that there could be sex days too. Sometimes it doesn’t work well when he has sex on days he’s been spanked. It only makes sense to separate those days. I don’t think Lion is very happy about this arrangement, but he’s agreed to go along with it. What other choice does he have?

Of course, I can give him sex on spanking days. I can do whatever I want. I could even spank him on sex days. He even said “at least” three days of spanking per week. We also didn’t specify how long the spankings should be. Our usual punishment spankings are at least ten minutes. That seems a bit excessive for three times a week. I did five minutes last night. It was enough to get him rosy, and he had some areas that looks like they were purplish. He reported having some sore spots, but the rosiness didn’t hang around for long. I do plan on upping the time if he has broken a rule. Obviously, if it’s one of the “real” rules, he’ll get ten minutes. I won’t add ten to the five. If he’s broken one of the subjective rules, I’ll make it the full ten minutes.

Last night, he was very proud of himself for not calling anyone stupid or saying they looked ridiculous. In all fairness, there was at least one person on Wheel of Fortune that both of us wondered how they got on the show. The contestants go through a certain amount of testing. I know it’s different when you’re in front of the cameras as opposed to sitting in your comfy living room, but this person was really struggling. I was proud of Lion’s restraint.

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  1. I like this and hope it works for you. I am also in a position of wishing for or needing more spankings.
    Several years ago my wife agreed to spank me on a regular basis. It didn’t happen. We did not set a specific time frame like this of 3 times a week on certain days. I think it is time for me to communicate honestly with her and request that we try setting up a routine. Will be following up to see how it works for you.

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