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The (big) cat is out of the bag. Julie of strictjuliespanks.blogspot.com mentioned our very nice correspondence. It’s a little personal project to help fuel our real-life sex. The stories are designed to push our respective buttons. One advantage of being a sex blogger is that readers learn what turns us on in real life. Julie has been blogging longer than us. I’ve been enjoying her writing for almost eight years. I’ve read every post she’s written. She reads my writing too. We’ve seen each other naked in our published pictures. We’ve also become friends and help each other with our books.

The result of all this is that she knows exactly how to push my buttons. Once we enjoy the heat our writing produces, we send back our review of the writing. This serves to make the next story even closer to our sexual centers. Our spouses know of this. Mrs. Lion read Julie’s first story. She didn’t react much. This isn’t surprising. Her lack of interest in sex for herself makes a visceral response unlikely.

We started the project because I mentioned that I was having trouble getting my motor running. I don’t masturbate. Mrs. Lion strongly dislikes the idea of me jerking off. It was the first rule she made for me. She didn’t masturbate before she lost interest in sex. She tried it and didn’t like it. I liked it when I did it. Still, I understand her problem with it. Julie summed it up in her post, “Spanked for masturbating – part 1“:

“I think we can all admit that if we have a live-in partner, and you find out they have been masturbating, even if you are intellectually fine with it, and do it yourself, you are nonetheless just a touch annoyed, no? Certainly I am. Just a touch. I mean, he has almost 24×7 access to ME, why does he need to jerk off? What’s wrong with ME???? Who wouldn’t want to fuck THIS at every possible opportunity, am I right?”

How can she resist this?

Julie included an image of herself naked that makes her point. It really makes it! It’s hard to argue with that logic. Mrs. Lion’s point was that, in a sense, jerking off is a form of cheating. After all, she told me, I’m having sex without her. I can’t argue with that. In our relationship, I don’t have the 24×7 access to Mrs. Lion that Julie offers David. Still, I have to agree that Mrs. Lion owns my orgasms. She has 24×7 access to me!

As you might imagine, experienced writers like Julie and I can deliver exceptionally hot, custom porn. I love writing it, using my knowledge of her. She knows exactly how to get me hard and hungry. She definitely double teams me with Mrs. Lion.

Over the years, we’ve mentioned each other’s blogs in our writing. I don’t understand why, but bloggers avoid mentioning one another. This is odd since we read each other. How do I know? I don’t. Occasionally, our blog gets mentioned, which suggests the blogger reads us. I wonder if these people worry that if they point people at our blog, they will stop reading theirs. Silly!

If you ever wondered what sex bloggers do in their private lives, now you know. You might be surprised to learn that there is almost nothing private in our lives. Every single sexual activity, spanking, teasing, and orgasm either of us experienced has been chronicled here since 2014. Maybe this blogger doesn’t have a private life after all.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments

Lion wasn’t feeling all that well last night. We watched TV and held hands. Not the most exciting thing to read on a male chastity site. No one was jerked off. No one got punished. Actually, that’s 90% of our lives. When Lion was locked up 24/7, our focus was not 100% on that. He has rules to follow 24/7, but we don’t focus on them 100% of the time. Hell, I don’t even focus on work 100% when I’m at work. Case in point, I’m writing this post. The point is, it does not take over our lives. If you walked in our front door, you’d never know there was anything different about us versus our neighbors. Of course, for all I know, they are just like us. It’s not something you shout from the rooftops.

Since I’m more of the play-by-play guy, I have less to write about when nothing happens. That doesn’t mean I don’t keep my eye on Lion to make sure he does what he’s supposed to do. He still has to remind me of punishment day and set up the coffee pot and stay naked when he’s home, etc. If I came home tonight to a fully dressed Lion, I’d wonder what the heck was going on. Who said he could get dressed? Or do we need to go out, and he’s gotten dressed to save time?

Hairbrush paddle

As you’ve undoubtedly noticed, he tends to forget the coffee pot. I usually notice when I’m making dinner. Sometimes I’m nice and give him a hint. Other times, well, it’s his job to remember. The one thing that I probably need to concentrate on more is his interrupting me. Maybe I need to make that something I focus on 100% because, so far, I haven’t really punished him for interrupting. Sometimes I growl at him for it. At least, I think I’m growling. Apparently, he doesn’t register it as a growl. I bet he’d register if he got his butt whomped. And that’s exactly his point.

I won’t say I’ll start focusing on his interrupting right away. We have a trip to get through, and I think it will be exasperating enough without paying more attention to that. On the other hand, I plan to bring along the hairbrush paddle as an incentive for him to behave. I’m sure it wouldn’t be very comfortable sitting through a wedding with your buns on fire. Or a plane trip, for that matter.

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In: Edging, Ruined orgasm

You’d think that being a male, I would know all about what works for men. I don’t. For example, it wasn’t many years ago that I learned about ruined orgasms. Yes, there had been times in the past when I had them. They were always accidents or miscalculations. I had no idea that women would deliver them just for fun.

It never occurred to me that there was more than one way I could come. Please! No, I’m not talking about hands, vaginas, mouths, or anuses. I’m talking about different sensations that can be delivered at will. The first surprise was ruined orgasms. I had read about women dominating men by doing this to them. Once Mrs. Lion learned to consistently deliver them, I had many opportunities to experience the frustration they induce.

Some males can be brought to a ruined orgasm more than once in a session. This ability is controlled by the amount of semen available for ejaculation. The more produced, the more times he will be able to experience ruined orgasms in a session. Apparently, our ability to reach orgasm depends on a supply of semen available for release. Most of the time, in a normal ejaculation, the entire supply comes out at one time. A male orgasm is a complex set of muscle activities that moves semen to the base of the penis and then out.

A ruined orgasm occurs when the penis is stimulated just enough to trigger the sequence. Once that happens, the supply of semen at the base of the penis is sent up and out. However, without continued stimulation, the sequence aborts. That sensation isn’t pleasant. Of course, you know that. After a brief (only a few seconds) rest, stimulation can be resumed, and excitement will build again. Rinse and repeat.

Many women don’t fully understand when they create a ruined vs. full orgasm. A ruined orgasm occurs when penis stimulation stops, and then nothing happens for up to 15 seconds. Then the semen oozes out. Some guys will squirt. I don’t. The key is that after you move your hand away, the penis may twitch a bit, and then some semen emerges. Resuming stimulation once the semen starts to flow won’t rescue the orgasm. It’s too late. Some women whose partners can have more than one ruined orgasm will take mercy and keep rubbing for the last one. That way, he finally gets to enjoy what every man desires.

A second odd male sexual ability is edging. Female orgasms build slowly. Excitement increases until the orgasm occurs. Males are completely different. We will get aroused, and then our arousal plateaus. It may increase a little, but we don’t feel a gradual buildup to our climax. Instead, when we are ready to come, our excitement builds rapidly, and then we ejaculate. That ramp-up can be as little as two or three seconds. Some men experience a slightly longer buildup.

Edging is first cousin to ruined orgasms. It takes some practice to successfully edge a man. Edging is stimulating the penis until just before ejaculation is triggered. Ruined orgasms require stimulation until just after that trigger point. There is fun on either side of that razor’s edge. The better you are at edging, the closer you get to that trigger point. If you get really close, it feels like ejaculation is on the way. When you suddenly stop, there is a huge buildup of arousal with nowhere to go. I may be sweating and panting. I will try to hump air in order to get over the top.

Unlike ruined orgasms, every man can be edged over and over. You can’t go on indefinitely. Eventually, he will “break.” He will get soft and be unable to be aroused. Mrs. Lion has done this to me a few times. It is super frustrating. Within an hour, most guys will be ready to go again. Do this for an evening, and you will have a sweaty guy with a sore cock.

Most women use their hands for either activity. Mrs. Lion can do it with her mouth. She can sense the level of my arousal and stop on either side of my trigger point. She is a very skilled lioness.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Sex

Saturday night, I made up my pill packets. Sunday night, I made up Lion’s. Last night, I put the dog’s medicine in little packets to make it easier for the kennel to give them to her. Tonight is laundry. This should not deter me from giving Lion some attention. He may not be ready yet, so I’ll do a drive-by and see how my weenie reacts.

He hasn’t been reacting to my playing with my weenie while we’re snuggling. I’ve been going around to his side of the bed. Maybe I’ll use the Magic Wand. If I’m not planning on sucking on him, I can vibrate him. He tends to get overstimulated, and then sucking doesn’t really work. The Magic Wand has the ability to “revive” him when jerking him off or sucking can’t quite do it.

It’s only been a few days since his orgasm, and we have a trip coming up, so our minds are elsewhere. I don’t think there’s any problem if he’s not interested. Depending on how tired we are, he might get some hotel sex. I’ve heard that hotel sex is the best kind of sex. I can’t imagine why. Is it because you can be really loud and you’ll never have to see these people again? Is it because people hook up with random people in hotels? I don’t know. It has never seemed any different to me. At the very least, we’ll be back home Sunday so we can resume home sex then.

I took Thursday through Tuesday off because I thought we’d stay longer for my son’s wedding. The wedding isn’t really near where they live, so he won’t be in the area any longer than we will. It works out fine though, because it gives us Thursday to drop the dog off and pack, and then we’ll be home for a few days so we can pick up the dog and relax a bit. I’ll also have time to do some manscaping. He’s a furry boy. And the lawn needs to be mowed again too.

Maybe I won’t have time to relax a bit.