I have no idea how it happened, but Saturday got away from me. We did get a late start, had lunch out, and ran an errand, but it was 4 o’clock before we made it home. Then I did some laundry and cleaned up a bit. We decided what to have for dinner late, and it took a while to cook. Suddenly it was 9 o’clock, and I was tired and achy. Why achy? I haven’t been sleeping well, so that makes sense. It wasn’t until around ten that I remembered I hadn’t spanked Lion.
We were supposed to get a huge wind storm with wind speeds up to 40 mph and gusts up to 50. I was trying to make sure everything was battened down and ready for a potential power outage. So far, we’ve had wind up to 27 mph. I know they can’t pinpoint where something will hit, and there’s plenty of trees down in neighboring areas, but it was a lot of worry for nothing. I guess worry makes me tired and achy too.
I initially thought we could get an early start to the spanking yesterday. Maybe if I whacked him in the afternoon, it would be better for sex later on. I want to keep a decent amount of time between punishment and sex. I don’t want to confuse Lion’s naughty bits. He knows the difference, but it’s best not to merge the two if at all possible. Normally, I spank him, take my shower, wait a bit, and then we play. From time to time, Lion has asked for things to happen earlier in the day. It’s not possible when I work. We did try to do things just as I got home, but it didn’t last long. We can try again. Lion has also said he doesn’t like to be on a schedule of sorts. For example, “It’s 9 pm. Must be time for sex.” I’m not quite sure how to fix that, but I can try to be a little more spontaneous.
Lion has two other concerns: lack of sexual touching during the day and my not wanting sex for myself. Lion used to be a lot more mobile than he’s been in the past few years. He’d be in the kitchen while I was there. Our bathroom was bigger so we could both be in there at the same time. I think it’s a lack of physically being in the same room. When Lion is up and about, I’m usually trying to keep the dog off him, or I’m staying out of his way so he can walk. I can make sure we touch and kiss more. I can’t do anything about not wanting sex for myself. I’ll try anything to help Lion have more fun. He means everything to me.
