Tonight we’re going to try something a little different. Instead of waiting until 8 to start getting frisky, we’re going to try for a before-dinner rendezvous. I think we tried this once before, and it worked to some extent, but then life intruded, and we went back to our 8 pm routine. The problem is that I don’t seem to have any “oomph” after dinner. It takes some prodding (from me) before I get up to do the dinner dishes. If I shower, it’s even later before we get things started.
I won’t promise I’ll have any more oomph at 5, but I’m willing to try. Even though I work from home, I still need some downtime when I’m finished. But I can forgo that to see if an early start really does help Lion. He’s been getting hard and trying desperately to make it to the edge, but he’s just not making it. Last night I wondered if I’m not turning him on anymore. That’s silly because if I weren’t turning him on anymore, he’d never get hard at all.
Of course, the other issue might be the lack of actual play. I did play with his balls while I sucked him last night, but I don’t think that really counts. I would suggest a play spanking tonight, but then I wouldn’t know if it was the spanking or the early start that helped, assuming anything does help. I still think the biggest obstacle is stress. He’s still on furlough. And he’s writing another book. Both of those things add stress. Obviously, writing the book takes a lot of energy. He could just be worn out.
When he was writing the first book, I teased him that he used up all his sexual juju in his writing. He was turning himself on while writing, so he had nothing left by the time I got to him. In a sense, that may be true. I don’t think he’s turning himself on, necessarily. But he is tiring himself out. I’m not saying I want him to stop writing. I’m just looking for reasons why he isn’t making it to the edge.
Hopefully, starting the festivities before dinner will help. If it doesn’t, we’ll add in a play spanking. Sooner or later, we’ll get him to the edge. In the meantime, he’s still enjoying himself.