Getting Hard and Waiting

There is a lesser-known symptom of COVID-19. It’s brain fog. I swear, if I get any more brain fog I’ll forget how to breathe, never mind the virus debilitating my lungs. I’m not sure I’ve had any idea what day of the week it is this week. I forgot what Lion picked from the Box O’Fun, if he picked anything at all. I remember edging him orally, but it took some effort to remember the rest.

His choice was coconut oil hand job. He’s been finding hand jobs boring for about a month. I can get him hard if he’s got clothespins on or something else painful is happening, but the coconut oil wasn’t doing the trick. I’d think it would feel similar to being sucked, but what do I know?

I don’t know how long I was at it, but eventually I gave up with the coconut oil. I wiped him off with a tissue and washed my hands. I stopped short of washing the coconut oil off of him. It’s coconut oil. It should be edible. I wasn’t sure how it was going to taste, but I figured I’d give it a try. It’s not bad. It’s noticeable. I wouldn’t say, “Hey. You know what would be great? Let’s slather you with coconut oil and I’ll suck you.” I can handle it if it’s on him, but I wouldn’t go out of my way to put it on him for a blow job. And, the way I look at it, he shouldn’t need anything but my mouth. (Pardon me. My modesty faded a bit there.)

Of course, that’s not entirely true. He’s been unable to get hard from my mouth. It’s just one of those things that happens from time to time. It’s especially true if we haven’t done any warm-up drills. Going straight for sex doesn’t do much for him. Obviously, sometimes it works fine. I guess it depends on how horny he is. That falls on me. If I’m doing my job, he should be sufficiently frustrated so he gets hard almost immediately. It’s the stiff breeze theory.

Although neither one of us much cares for long waits, it occurred to me the other night that the more often I give him an orgasm, the more I have to wait for him to be ready for the next one. Theoretically, I should make him wait longer so I get to play with him more. This is only true to a point. After a certain length of time, he hits a plateau. He doesn’t care if he comes or not. The key is to find that sweet spot. I have no idea what that spot is, but I’m thinking it will be at least another few days before he gets any satisfaction.