Another year is nearly over. We’ve completed our fifth year of enforced chastity and female led relationship with discipline (FLRD). There have been a lot of changes. We’ve each embraced our roles. What we do isn’t a BDSM caricature. It’s a working relationship that incorporates our power exchange.
As I wrote yesterday, our progress isn’t uniform. Both of us have difficulty with discipline. For my part, I don’t gracefully accept my well-earned spankings. For her part, Mrs. Lion often overlooks transgressions crying out for correction and is way too willing to let me escape my full measure of pain.
This isn’t surprising. We have no yardstick to measure discipline. Neither of us was physically punished as a kid. We lacked strong authority figures. That doesn’t mean my bottom goes unswatted. Mrs. Lion spanks me and I feel her displeasure. It isn’t consistent and doesn’t rise to the level of our enforced male chastity power exchange.
We’ve been very successful with sex. In the five years we’ve been doing this, I haven’t masturbated once. My only ejaculations have been at Mrs. Lion’s hands (and mouth). Chastity is consistent and successful. I am her sexual property. And I love it!
It may be that we need to make 2019 the year of the paddle, We both agree that we want a disciplinary relationship. Mrs. Lion is an accomplished spanker, as witness her NFL spanking game results. I think we need to resolve to help each other build good disciplinary habits. Yesterday, I proposed training sessions for me so I can more gracefully accept a meaningful spanking. I’ll need to remind Mrs. Lion to begin.
We need to be consistent regardless of our mood or interest at the moment. We’ve been successful in the past when we resolve to do something. There’s no reason we can’t make this work too. Here we go again!