There’s a retail practice known as “BOGO” — Buy One Get One. Generally, it means that if you buy one of something at regular price, you get another for free or for a reduced price. It’s a time-honored way to induce more business. All the cyber Monday ads got me thinking about this gimmick. It gave me an idea.
Mrs. Lion and I have been under the weather and spent the entire four-day weekend in bed. I had absolutely no interest in sex. We watched a lot of football. As we’ve written before, we have a football spanking game. Every time a point is scored by either side, I get two swats. If there is a foul (yellow flag), Mrs. Lion zaps me with my shock collar. We’ve been doing this for a number of weeks.
Since I was sick, we didn’t play our game this past weekend. But, each time a ref called a foul, I felt a twitch between my legs. I’ve been conditioned to associate yellow flags with shocks from the shock collar. This conditioning happened very quickly. I shouldn’t be surprised. Mrs. Lion has been 100% consistent zapping me every time a foul was called. Now, I associate a foul with a shock between my legs.
I didn’t expect that outcome. It means that I can be conditioned to associate unrelated events on a subconscious level. Realizing this is what got me thinking. Does it mean that if Mrs. Lion ties two activities together, like the shock and yellow flags, will I be conditioned to associate other, unrelated physical events? Will it work if the connection is pleasurable?
We males have a rather narrow sexual focus. Essentially, serious sexual pleasure is restricted to a small area on our penises. Yes, other things can turn us on, but we want the focus to move to the penis as quickly as possible. Is it possible to connect sexual arousal with a combination of stimuli? While my sexual focus would remain with my penis — nothing is likely to change that — could I be conditioned to require another stimulus before I can fully enjoy the arousal?
Most of us have experienced this sort of dual stimulation. Occasionally, a finger will find its way up my ass while I receive oral sex. The first time this happened, I was surprised and lost some of my arousal. It didn’t take long for me to enjoy a finger up there while being sucked. I imagine many guys share this experience.
What if, like the shock collar during football, something is always in my ass if my penis is being stimulated. I don’t mean pegging or butt plugs. Just something inserted and left in place during stimulation. Would I learn to associate sexual arousal with anal stimulation? Would arousal be more difficult if my anus isn’t stimulated? Would I become aroused if I’m stimulated anally alone?
I’m not suggesting that I will learn to ejaculate with anal stimulation alone; or, even get hard when my ass is penetrated. I think I will learn to expect my penis to be stimulated if my ass is. I will also expect my ass to be stimulated if my penis is touched. In other words, I imagine from a sexual perspective my anus and penis will be linked the same way football yellow flags and shocks are.
I’m not suggesting anything major. Just that something, a finger, small butt plug, dildo, etc. be in my butt every time my penis is stimulated. As we learned with other conditioning exercises, consistency is critical. I suspect it won’t take very long for me to make the connection.
What’s the benefit? Other than satisfying my scientific curiosity, the exercise also opens up a new primary sexual arousal zone on my body. A finger gently rubbing my anus will send shivers through me if this works. Of course this is just a theory. If it works, Mrs. Lion has a sexual BOGO.
