Here Comes Lioness 3.0

It started as a little joke. Mrs. Lion started referring to herself as Lioness 1.0. She wrote that she was working toward being 2.0. I would know when 2.0 arrived when she stopped worrying about whether she put clothespins on particularly painful areas of my balls. She wouldn’t worry about spanking me too hard. She would be consistent and punish me every time I broke a rule.

She said she was joking. She didn’t expect to get to that point.

She did.

Those clothespins are more often meaner plastic models. They go just where she knows I squirm and yelp. When I complain she just smiles and tugs on the most painful ones. Punishments are painful and merciless.

2.0 lives here full time.

Recently, Mrs. Lion has made a few references to Lioness 3.0. She admits that she doesn’t know exactly how the next version will be different from the current one. It won’t be more intensity. 2.0  escalates routinely. The big change from 1.0 to 2.0 is her physical intensity as a top and disciplining wife. 3,0 can’t be more of the same.

I think I’ve gotten a peek at 3.0. The changes don’t relate to physical intensity at all. The next version is all about her and her feelings. Remember her post a few days ago? She said that giving me a play spanking made her feel closer to me, more intimate. That is a very profound statement.

Spanking me did something positive for her.

She discovered that topping me provides emotional satisfaction. 3.0 actively enjoys topping me. She does it because she likes how it makes her feel. No, we aren’t there yet, but it’s clear to me that is the next step.

There’s more. 3.0 punishes me for doing things that she doesn’t like. Spilling food on my shirt or eating before her doesn’t offend or anger her. She enforces those rules because she agreed to as part of our training  to live in a disciplinary relationship. 2.0 is an efficient disciplinarian. Every offense is punished painfully. There is no hint of BDSM in the price I pay for offending.

3.0 will punish me for things that are meaningful to her. For example, my newest rule is that I am not to act like I have the only right answer to things. It’s a bad habit. She will tell me about a plan for, let’s say, buying an ink jet printer. I will pronounce that the only kind she should get is a laser. She hates that. I’ve been put on notice that she will punish me each time I do that.

She has a rule on the books the forbids interrupting her. This rule has only been enforced a few times in the more-than two years it has been in force. The same way that 2.0 religiously punishes me for eating first, 3.0 will do the same for interrupting or acting like a know-it-all. She will broaden the list to anything I do that annoys her. Punishments will be for meaningful offenses. She won’t stop strict enforcement of the other rules as well.

The big improvement 3.0 makes is internal. Her role is as much about her than it is about me. BDSM provides 3.0 with intimacy and satisfaction. She enjoys how it feels to play with me. The point is less my need for bottoming and more the way topping makes her feel. 3.0 thinks about herself. Annoying her is an offense that gets at least as much attention as me spilling on my shirt. She will demand changes in me that make our relationship stronger. I suspect that the punishments for these offenses will be more severe.

3.0 is motivated by a sincere desire to make me change.

We’ve both learned that a disciplinary marriage can effect real change. The evidence is unmistakable. It’s much harder to move from spilled food to interrupting. Spilling is external and doesn’t hurt if I offend. Interrupting hurts Mrs. Lion and requires her to be self aware and willing to demand respect with at least the same force she gives ketchup on my t-shirt.

It will be easy to see when 3.0 moves in. She’s visiting now and then, but it won’t be long before there will be a new lioness in town.


  1. When I got to that 3.0 stage was also when I became much more casual about inviting other women in to watch his spankings, just sayin…

    1. Author

      Uh oh. That would be a surprising development.

    2. Not going to happen

  2. Wait till 4.0 appears.

    1. Author

      We’re still trying to figure out 3.0. That seems pretty distant.

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