penis in chastity device
This is my 1-1/4 inch Jail Bird. At times even this short cage is too long to keep the head of my penis in contact with the front of the cage. Click image to view larger.

I’ve been thinking about whether I should have a slightly shorter Mature Metal Jail Bird. It isn’t that my penis is swimming in the present one (1-1/4 inch length). I’m wondering if reducing it to one inch would improve the fit. Sometimes, when standing, — for example at a urinal — the urethra will retreat a bit and urine can spray as it hits a bar (See image, right). One inch is the shortest the Jail Bird can be made.

Recently, I tested a Chinese cage that was 3/4 of an inch long (Below, left.). It’s an off-the-shelf device, so the fit is less than perfect. But it proved to me that I could be completely comfortable in a much shorter device. My goal is to be able to wear a cage without worry about peeing standing up. Admittedly, the current cage is already quite short. The picture clearly shows that even the current, short length allows a very flaccid penis too much movement.

inexpensive chinese chastity device
This is a very inexpensive, Chinese chastity device. The cage is about 3/4-inches long. It fits comfortably. Click image for purchase information.

This change has nothing to do with preventing masturbation. It has nothing at all to do with sex or sexual control. The change improves comfort. It gives me more security when visiting a men’s room. Mrs. Lion agreed that I can have it shortened. It’s on the way to Mature Metal.

The other day, I wrote about buying a titanium cage. The good people who make them replied. The cost for a simple, titanium cage (picture of sample here) is $2,450. I know it would fit  perfectly and be a work of art. Sadly, that’s just too expensive for us.

It’s true that I’m currently wild (no cage). Maybe all this interest in adjusting my cage is due to the fact I miss wearing it. That could be. All power exchanges aside, wearing a chastity device is a joint decision. Mrs. Lion has to want to lock me up again. This isn’t because she’s in charge, which she is, but because the chastity device makes access to my (her!) penis inconvenient. She has to get the key and remove the security screw before she can free it.

I’m ambivalent about returning to the cage full time. Part of me likes feeling the control — penis bondage — of the device locked on my penis. I also like the symbolism of being caged by my lioness. On the other hand, it is much more convenient and a little more comfortable to be wild. As Mrs. Lion has pointed out, after a week or so of lockup, I whine a bit about being caged.

She has a point. However, we started this adventure with a chastity device locked securely on my penis. We know, after all this time, device or no device, we will continue our power exchange. I’m starting to think that wearing a chastity device helps center and formalize our FLRD (Female Led Relationship with Discipline). I may be wrong, but I think it might be better if I’m locked up again.