Last night I wasn’t really in the mood for an orgasm. Well, let’s face it, I haven’t been in the mood for a long time and that’s why I’ve scheduled orgasms for myself now too. I considered trading dates with Lion. His is the 5th and mine was the 2nd. Not a big deal since it’s only a few days. However there are a few problems with that arrangement.
At the top of the list is time management. I know in the next few days I should be getting my monthly “visitor”. No possibility for orgasm there unless you are into blood sports, which we are not. So pushing my date off even a few days might have been a problem.
The other, more important reason is that since I’m never really in the mood right now, we made a commitment to my having orgasms on scheduled days. I know things can happen just like they sometimes happen to Lion. If I was sick or feeling rotten then we might have pushed it off. But to push it off because I didn’t feel like doing it would not set a good precedent.
On the other hand, I really wanted to give Lion an orgasm. What luck! I get to decide when he has one. You see, he doesn’t get one just because he wants one, but he does get one just because I want to give him one. Last night he was not concentrating on his own orgasm. He was excited to give me one. He never asked for one. The only thing he was expecting was some form of play.
Afterwards he asked if I was going to change his date. I wondered why I would do that. He still has three days to go before his scheduled date. We didn’t trade dates. We traded orgasms.